7 Biggest Early Warning Signs Of A Bad Boyfriend To Lookout For

When you first fell in love with your guy, you may have believed him to be the best boyfriend in the whole world. He wooed you, awed you, and impressed you. But as the days turned to months, something began to change. He seemed more distant, or worse, he no longer had time for you anymore. If you’ve experienced this stage in the relationship, perhaps it’s time for you to take a deeper look into your relationship and work out whether he’s ticking a few of these signs of a bad boyfriend.

You see, we’re on our best behavior when we first meet someone. You can’t really take that first few months at face value.

While it’s still about who they are, they’re bound to become a little less charming and attentive after that. But, it shouldn’t change drastically.

If he no longer has time for you or simply doesn’t want to make time, you need to start questioning the whole relationship. How can you tell if your boyfriend is losing interest in you?Well, he starts to show these signs of a bad boyfriend. He’s mean and rude, angry and annoying. All the time!

Instead of confronting the situation, a guy may decide to deal with it internally by distancing himself from you. And for a girl, this is the worst feeling in the world, the helplessness of knowing something’s not right, and yet having to tag along for the ride in pure misery and confusion.The best way to know if you’re being used is by trusting your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right in your relationship, chances are, it isn’t!

# He takes his time to reply

He often doesn’t answer your calls immediately even if he isn’t at work. And he always takes a lot of time to text you or call you back even when he’s not busy. This is one of the earliest signs of a bad boyfriend because it often appears at the start, and he may set the tone of the relationship with this move.

# He takes you for granted

He takes you and your gestures for granted. He just expects you to be sweet and helpful all the time, and he never reciprocates anything you do. You don’t even get a ‘thank you.’

# He has no, or very little, time for you

He doesn’t have time for you, but always has time for his friends and other activities. He’s active on social media playing silly games, but he doesn’t have time to call you or meet you.

He makes plans with you and flakes on them often. And he always has a convincing excuse no matter what accusation you make. This is one of the biggest signs of a bad boyfriend.

# All he wants to do is make out

Every time you meet, all he wants to do is make out. He gets annoyed if you just want to talk or hang out doing something else.

# He’s emotionally closed off

One of the early signs of a bad boyfriend is his disinterest in talking about the future or his feelings. He says he likes living in the present, but still makes future plans about everything else but the relationship.

# He has a lot of secrets

And most of these secrets have names of different girls. He may be commenting, DMing, or chatting with them on social media or speaking with them over the phone now and then.

Even if you ask him who these girls are or how he knows them, he just brushes the conversation off or avoids talking about them.

# He’s controlling and manipulative

He seems very concerned about you and always tries to advise you on how you should lead your life. And as helpful as he seems, somehow you feel very stifled and suffocated in the relationship.