7 Blatant Signs You Are A Trophy Girlfriend

Yes, you’re beautiful! There’s nothing wrong with your beauty, but what’s wrong is when a man is only with you for that one reason. You’re more than your face or body, right? You have a brain, a sense of humor, and a kind heart you’re a person. If he doesn’t see you as a whole person but rather someone with a pretty face, that’s a problem. So, here are the signs you are a trophy girlfriend.

Sadly, not everyone goes into a relationship for the same reason. Though you may be in it for love, he may not be in it for that reason. Now, not all guys are like this. But there are some guys who are into boosting their ego by having a good looking woman stand next to them.

Sure, when you read that line, you probably felt flattered by the idea that someone would want to be next to you. This isn’t because of you, it’s because of how you make them look and feel. He may buy you everything you want, but there’s a price. You better keep up the standard because he needs to look good. Ugh, isn’t this the 21st century?

# No talks about the future

If a guy really likes you, there’s no problem talking about the future with you. This doesn’t mean talks about marriage, but it could be about traveling or even your plans for the next weekend. If he doesn’t think of any short-term or long-term plans with you, he’s not serious.

# You feel like a rebound

If he just got out of a relationship, the chances are very high that you’re a rebound. They basically get a good looking woman by their side while getting over their latest breakup. Now, dating someone after being in a relationship isn’t a bad thing, in some cases it’s not a rebound. But, in reality, he’s probably scared to be alone.

# You never met his friends

He has friends, everyone has at least one friend. The funny thing, though his proclaimed girlfriend, you never met his friends—not one. If he’s not introducing you to people important to him, it’s one of those big signs you are a trophy girlfriend and nothing more. He wants to show you off to the world but doesn’t want you to get to know his friends, because he’s not thinking of anything long term with you.

# You’re a girlfriend when he needs you to be

A healthy relationship needs to move forward. It doesn’t need to progress at the speed of light, but it should move forward. If your relationship isn’t progressing, he likes having you as a convenient date. He may call you his girlfriend to his parents or friends, but you don’t feel like one.

# No deep conversations

With some people, you speak about deep and serious topics. But with him, he likes everything light. A progressing relationship talks about serious things whether it’s about family, friends, or the relationship itself.

If there are no serious discussions going on between you, it’s because he doesn’t see you capable of having one nor does he want to have one with you.

# He likes to go with the flow

How convenient, right? Keep your eye on this, because it’s one of those subtle signs you are a trophy girlfriend in his eyes. If everything with him is about going with the flow and taking things day by day, he’s either way too laid back or he’s just using you to get attention until he finds someone else.

He may tell you that he’s a man that lives in the present which is a load of shit. If he’s always up in the air it’s because you’re not a priority to him, trust me, he has plans and you’re not in them.

# They’re in love with themselves

When you sit next to them, they’re busy on their phone, texting whoever is on the other end. They don’t ask about your day or how you feel. But when you ask them, they have no problem giving you long answers without ever shooting the question back at you. It’s because they don’t actually care about you.