7 Most Common Relationship Tips That Will Ruin Your Love Life

Relationship tips are great for romance. But not all the time! Here are 7 common relationship tips that can do more harm than good to your love life!

The easiest way to learn from the relationship tips you hear so often is by understanding the essence of the idea, and infusing it into your own love life, in a manner that you see fit.

When you fall in love, you need to see yourself and your partner as two individuals who bring their lives together. You don’t necessarily have to share the same likes and dislikes, nor do you have to be polar opposites to make the relationship work.

Learn about the matters of the heart from your friends, your own family and everyone around you. But don’t blindly follow everything you see or hear. After all, a few relationship tips are completely accepted as the absolute truth only because they’ve been repeated so many times by so many people!

# You need a lover to feel complete in your life

Have you ever that that line, ‘…you complete me!’? Well, as much as people tell you that having a partner in your life is the only way to feel complete, it’s not entirely true. You don’t need to get into a desperate relationship with someone just to feel complete. You may end up feeling worse than ever if you get into a relationship believing that it’s your purpose in life.

# You won’t find anyone else attractive when you’re in love

Many people will sincerely try to convince you that you can’t find anyone else sexually attractive if you’re truly in love with someone. And if you do think someone walking past you on the street is sexy, you’re supposed to feel guilty about it because you’re mentally cheating on your lover!

# Space in a relationship separates lovers

Some people believe that lovers need to completely depend on each other to actually experience happiness and togetherness. Truth be told, a good relationship does need dependability and together time, but it also needs a significant amount of space away from each other!

# Unconditional love always pays off

It’s been said that even the worst of lovers would turn into good lovers when you love them unconditionally and give them time to change. But not all people change over time. A serial cheater who was cheating on you even when both of you were completely happy may always go looking for opportunities to cheat on you no matter how much you love them or try to stop them from straying.

# Perfect relationships are effortless

This is the biggest lie you’ll hear. Relationships don’t magically work themselves up to perfection, like the way it’s shown in the movies. You have to make the effort to understand each other and communicate with each other. Don’t take it easy and expect things to just work itself out in the end because, as with everything else in life, good things don’t happen accidentally!

# Having a child together will keep your relationship intact

Having a child together won’t keep you together or bring you happiness. Your efforts will. By bringing a child into your lives, you’re not clearing the emotional mess, you’re only adding to it by sweeping your troubles under a blanket and distracting yourselves with something that needs a lot of responsibility. Try to work on your relationship and make it better before having a baby, or both of you would be bound together, not by love, but by a baby and both your frustrations.

# Arguments in a relationship is unhealthy

Fights and angry arguments are stressful and can hurt both of you. But that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s a bad thing. There may be a few couples who get along perfectly without any arguments because they’re more considerate or tolerant. On the other hand, there are many couples who hold their feelings in and explode at each other now and then.