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7 Must Know Tips Of French Kiss
By: Kratika Wed, 20 Apr 2022 1:04:35
When you watch a couple seriously making out in a movie, you probably look at it and think “hmm, that doesn’t look so easy!” In some ways, you’re right. It’s very easy to get French kissing wrong.
After all, nobody likes to feel like someone is literally pushing their tongue firmly into their mouth and swirling it around. But, when you know how to French kiss, it’s not only super-easy from that point on, but very enjoyable too.
Be honest, have you ever had someone tell you not to slip them the tongue after engaging in a smooch-fest?
We hate to be the bearers of bad news, but if this has ever happened to you, you could probably use some pointers on French kissing!
# Watch your breath
There is nothing worse than having someone jam their tongue inside your mouth right after chowing down on a shawarma! Onion breath? No, thank you. Do your lover a favor and rinse with mouthwash, or take a big gulp of water and pop a mint before engaging in spit swapping.
# Don’t shove your tongue down their throat when learning how to French kiss
Did you know that a cow’s tongue is about a foot long in length? We’re not suggesting yours is the same length but when you attempt to ram it down someone’s throat it can feel that long!
When it comes to learning how to French kiss, never underestimate the importance of the tongue-to-mouth ratio! Nobody likes getting a giant glob of tongue shoved down their throat.
Nobody’s getting turned on by that nonsense.
# Do tease your lover
French kissing should be like long, drawn-out foreplay. A big, sexy tease!
Instead of ramming your tongue into your lover’s mouth straight away, try doing very gentle flicks of your tongue against theirs in between normal kisses.
This occasional contact between wet, gliding tongues adds just the right amount of eroticism to your kiss. It’s always better to be slow and gentle with careful, curious touches of your tongue than to just go all in from the start.
# Do keep your tongue soft
A soft tongue rubbing against another soft tongue is beyond a turn-on. Kissing should be fun, so relax and keep your tongue totally chill while making out.
A hard tongue may be great for oral, but it sucks for kissing.
# Don’t French kiss like you’re in high school
This means avoiding rubbing your tongues back and forth in a rapid manner and swirling your tongues around in circles like you’re trying to figure out how many licks it takes to get to the center of a Tootsie Pop!
These are bad, dated techniques that should be done away with immediately. You should not be kissing like a washing machine on a spin cycle!
# Do work on your technique
The point of French kissing is to build sexual anticipation.
Some girls like to take their partner’s tongues into their mouths and suck on it gently, as they would a penis during a BJ! This might seem a little silly at first, but it can certainly get the point across to your man. Just make sure you only throw it in there once during your session in order to keep it feeling fresh.