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7 Subtle Yet Most Obvious Signs A Guy Is Getting Turned On Around You
By: Kratika Sat, 18 Mar 2023 3:38:21
Do you like a guy and aren’t sure if he’s into you? Have you been texting back and forth with your friends endlessly, trying to decode every little thing he does in hopes of figuring out if he likes you? I get it. We’ve all been there, really wondering the sure signs a guy is getting turned on while hanging out with you.
When we like someone, we obviously want them to like us back. And this is when the overanalyzing comes into play. We slowly lose our minds.
I remember spending hours on the phone with my friends, giving every little detail about my date with some guy or the text he sent me. And all I wanted to know is whether or not he liked me.
# It’s all in the eyes
Isn’t it always about eye contact? If someone is interested in you, at the very least, they’ll make eye contact. If you notice he’s gazing at you or staring at you intensely while you’re talking, there’s a solid chance he’s not even paying attention to what you’re saying. He’s focusing on something else about you, like your lips, smile, or laugh.
# He doesn’t keep his distance
When we’re not into someone, we put distance between us. But, have you ever noticed body language between two people who like each other? They’re practically sitting on each other, that’s how close they are. When you like someone, you want to get as physically close to them as possible.
# He tells you
If the guy turns to you and says, “you really turn me on,” or “you’re making me crazy,” well, it looks like you know what’s going on. If he actually tells you that you’re turning him on, you don’t need to look any further at the other signs. He’s basically letting you know exactly how he’s feeling.
# He’s flirting with you
Oh, you know this. If a guy flirts with you, it’s because he’s into you. He finds you sexually attractive, and he’s stepping up his game. A guy wouldn’t flirt with someone they’re not attracted to, so don’t doubt yourself. Flirting creates sexual tension between two people, and it looks like he feels the chemistry between you and him.
# He has an erection
Oh wow, well, this isn’t very subtle. But sometimes you can’t control yourself. If he has an erection, it’s clear he’s turned on. Maybe he’s trying to hide it, or maybe not. I don’t know the relationship you have. But if you notice that he’s moving his junk around a lot or has a bulge in his pants, you know what’s going on.
# He touches you
This doesn’t mean he’s touching you in overly sexual places like your butt or breasts. That’s a little too much if you’re unsure how he feels about you. What I mean by touch is that he may place his hand on your back when walking through a doorway or move your hair out of your face. These are small reasons to touch you, and he’s taking advantage of them.
# He blushes around you
Aw well, isn’t that just sweet. You thought women were the only ones who blush when they’re nervous or excited? Of course, not! Men are also known to blush. If you flirt with him and he starts blushing or if you give him a compliment and he turns bright red, well, he’s just smitten over you.