7 Successful Ways To Be A Sugar Baby

We’ve all had those moments when we thought, “screw it,” and went online to search about being a sugar baby. Of course, you stopped yourself, thinking that it’s too hard. Plus, you don’t want to sleep with just anyone to get the financial benefits.

Well, that’s the thing about being a sugar baby, you make the rules. All you need to do is find a sugar daddy that agrees to your rules and to meet your needs.

But first, let me give you a quick reminder of what sugar dating is. It’s when someone, typically older than you, supports you financially in exchange for either emotional or physical support.

# Know what you want

Before you become a sugar baby, you need to be 100% honest with yourself, and ask yourself why you’re doing this and what you want out of it. If you don’t know the answer to either of the questions, don’t do it. You have to be clear with yourself because it will help you set your boundaries as well.

# Show your best assets

If you’re going to become a sugar baby, you’re here for the financial benefits, let’s not kid ourselves. Now, showing your assets doesn’t necessarily mean your boobs or butt, I’m talking about internal assets as well.

If you’re funny, show that off. Smart, show it off as well. These are all assets which showcase the best parts of you. They can be physical as well. The point is, you’ll attract sugar daddies attracted to those features.

# Be available

If you want to connect with sugar daddies, you need to be available. If you’re too busy, unless they really like you, it’s already too much of a hassle. Remember, they want a relationship that’s easy and smooth and works around their schedule, not the other way around.

# Set strict boundaries

You both need to know exactly what you are looking for out of this relationship. Once you have decided to date each other, this is when you settle the terms of the relationship. Here are some things you should have answered:

– How long you do feel the relationship will last?

– Will you only hang out alone or go out in public as well?

– Where will you meet?

– What time of the day and for how many hours?

– How many times a week or month will you see each other?

– When will you receive your payment, gifts, etc?

– How will you be financially supported?

# Don’t wait for them to come to you

This isn’t the same as other typical online dating sites. These sugar daddies aren’t trying to chase women playing hard to get. They’re financially investing into the relationship for a reason. Now, that means you shouldn’t just open your profile and let it sit online, waiting for sugar daddies to write you.

You need to be active. Write them first, go through profiles, be the one to make the first move. It may take a while until you meet someone that you connect with.

# Don’t assume sugar daddies are rich

They are your sugar daddy but don’t assume they have boatloads of money. Many sugar daddies are middle-class men who are single and have the income to spend it on another person.

This doesn’t mean they’re rich. Now, this doesn’t mean you should lower your payment or gifts. However, you should aim for a sugar daddy that can fulfill your expectations with regards to payment.

# Handle your expectations

It’s normal to develop feelings for someone you’re dating, regardless if they’re your sugar daddy or not. But, for your own heart and to prevent getting hurt, remember that these relationships are usually short-lived. Keep your emotions in check and ask yourself how you’re feeling about the relationship and if your needs are being met.