7 Sure Signs He Is Pursuing You

Honestly, you can blame Hollywood movies for all the confusion we have to experience in real life when it comes to knowing the signs he is pursuing you!

You may assume “pursuing” means a man dramatically chasing you down the street in slo-mo, falling to his knees while calling out your name. Obviously, if you’re looking for that kind of sign, you probably won’t find them in a guy who’s trying to be subtle while trying to woo you.

Things are a lot different in real life, and the little clues and signs, they stay subtle. You just need to know where to look and what they mean.

# He contacts you

If a guy is interested in you, he’ll contact you. He won’t wait days or weeks for you to make a move. He’ll send you texts or call you to chat and ask you out.

If he weren’t interested, you would wait for the rest of your life for a text that would never come. If the guy likes you, he won’t wait for someone else to slide in and take his spot.

# He’s consistent

It’s really all about consistency when you’re looking for the signs a guy is pursuing you. If he texts you when he says he’s going to text you and meets you when he says he will, this is a sign he’s interested in you.

A man who isn’t interested in you or sees you as casual will only contact you when convenient for him.

# You feel yourself around him

When you’re spending time with him, you don’t feel like you need to be on your best behavior.

You can crack jokes, tease each other, and talk about your passions and hobbies without feeling judged. Feeling comfortable around him is a sign you are connecting.

# He makes plans for the two of you

When he texts or calls you, he usually has a reason why. Of course, he may text you just to keep the connection going, but most of the time, the conversation will end with him inviting you out to a movie, dinner, or coffee.

# He opens up to you

Men won’t open up with just anyone they meet. Though it may take a couple of dates to develop the trust and bond between you, his vulnerability is a huge sign he’s interested in you.

# He wants to meet your friends and family

If a guy isn’t interested in you or sees you only as someone casual, there’s no way he’ll meet your friends and family. Why would he?

But if you’re looking for signs he is pursuing you, see if he wants to get to know the people who raised you and the friends you spend your time with.

# He actively listens

This isn’t something people are good at. Yes, we hear others when they talk, but we’re not actually listening. Instead, most of us are thinking of a good reply or other random thoughts. But he genuinely listens to you and engages in genuine eye contact.