7 Tips To Build Sexual Tension

Sexual tension is that fuzzy, sexual feeling that two people who are interested in each other feel when they’re in close proximity with each other. It can go away after a while, or it can stay on forever. Have you enjoyed a little flirty game with someone at work without really talking about it? That’s sexual tension.

You may not like this person romantically, but you still enjoy the racy tension that’s building up between the both of you.Sexual tension is best experienced when the two involved people just enjoy the tension without asking each other out or talking about it in the open.After all, if you do ask your flirty sexual tension friend out, you’re killing the sexual tension because you’ve now made it obvious that both of you share something sexual.So if you want to just enjoy the sexual tension, don’t ever say it out. Well, unless you want to take it to the next level of sexual intimacy or romance.

# Sneaky eye contact

Make eye contact often. But don’t be obvious about it. Look at this friend you like, but just as she looks back at you, look away. When you’re trying to build sexual tension, it’s all about being discreet.

Even if you get caught looking, just smile at this girl and look away in a second. When you make someone wonder if you were actually looking at them, you’re making them think of you and wonder if you’ve got more than friends on your mind.

# Talk naughty

Talk naughty, but don’t get dirty. Whenever the opportunity arises, talk about something funny and yet sexy. If you can see a bit of her cleavage, look straight at it and look away in an obvious manner. She may immediately cover it up, but she’d know you noticed it. You can talk naughty or just use your gestures, as long as you get naughty with her.

# Compliment with a hint of sex

Does she look particularly good today? Compliment her and talk about how good her curves look. If you want to build the sexual tension, you need to let her know that you admire her sexually without ever telling her directly that you find her sexy.

# Get into her personal space

When two people like each other, there’s always sexual tension in the air. Stand really close to her, almost to the point of touching her when you get the opportunity. Standing in a crowded elevator? Talking together with a group of friends? Get really close to her.

# Lingering touches

Are you trying to point something out on her phone? Let your arm graze against hers for a few seconds while you’re at it. Are you crossing the street with her? Place your hand on her back. Look for opportunities to exchange lingering touches with her. It’s the easiest way to make her feel the tingle of sexual tension without ever making it obvious. And she’ll definitely enjoy it too.

# Show yourself off

Look for ways to show off your sexy assets, be it your charm or your physique. Now this will work only if she’s already sexually attracted to you, so make sure you’ve warmed her up first with the earlier moves.

Let her take a sneak peek of you in your bare minimum or perhaps, give her the opportunity to graze your package accidentally.

Do anything that’ll make things more awkward. If there is indeed sexual tension between both of you, anything that increases awkwardness will definitely increase the sexual tension.

# Intense goodbyes

Whenever you’re about to say goodbye, make her feel like you don’t want to say goodbye at all. Don’t do this when there are others around though. Sexual tension should always be a well kept secret.

Every time you have to say goodbye to her, hug her but linger just a second more than normal. Delay the goodbye with some idle talk or just stare deeply into her eyes like you want to say something, but are holding the thought back. It’ll take the sexual tension to an all new high.