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7 Tips To Help You Be The Best Boyfriend
By: Priyanka Maheshwari Mon, 17 Apr 2023 11:00:35
Do you want secrets to becoming the best boyfriend in the world? Don’t you want to make your girlfriend feel like the luckiest girlfriend in the world? However, do you really think you are a great boyfriend to her? Even if you are confident, there is always scope for improvement. The bottom line is that do not let that beautiful girl away from your life.
There is much more to being an amazing boyfriend than just buying her flowers, chocolates, or talking for hours on the phone. If you want to have a happy and fulfilling relationship with her for a long time, you must make sure that you be the best version of yourself.
# Know Her More Than She Knows Herself
Spend time and effort to get to know her from inside. Learn about her likes, dislikes, places she wants to visit, her favorite people in the world apart from you, things she cannot live without and similar stuff. Pay attention while talking to her keeping track of her body language and expressions. Know about things which make her annoyed and happy.
# Learn from James Bond
Chivalry, gentlemen behavior, killer body language, smooth talker, confident in his skin- these are all traits of James Bond which make him a rage among women. Learn from him and imbibe these qualities in your behavior. Be the James Bond in the life of your girlfriend and you will never ask how to be the best boyfriend!
# Inspire Her
A great relationship is one where you become a better person over a period. Always remember to inspire your girl to be her best. That does not mean point out her flaws or mistakes, instead make her strive to become a better person, develop healthy habits, and go after her deepest desires and dreams.
# Surprise Her Often
Girls love surprises even if they say they do not like surprises. It does not have to be a grand gesture or an expensive foreign trip. Small things like arriving at her door with flowers, gifting her dress or book she once told you about, a surprise kiss during a conversation- anything will do!
# Love Cliches
Not all modern girls love cliche’ things yet they want to be loved and respected even if doing so may be a bit cliche or old fashioned. Leave her cute notes and messages in the book she is reading, gift her favorite flowers, open the door for her, saying “I love you” randomly when she least expects it. She is going to love it!
# Be Interesting. Never Stop Learning
Read more books and keep yourself updated. Never stop learning new skills. There is nothing sexier than a well-read, intelligent guy who can carry an intelligent conversation. Of course, this tip will also help you in your career.
# Listen, Do Not Judge
If there is one answer to how to be the best boyfriend, then it has to be this one! Do not rush to offer her advice when she begins to tell you about her problems or a bad day at work. Just listen with an open mind and empathize with her instead of trying too hard to solve her problems. Most of the times, she just wants you to listen to her instead of playing a role of problem solver.