7 Ways To Keep A Guy Happy In A Relationship

Ever since the beginning of time, women have been looked upon as property and their sole purpose in life is to please their man. Although plenty has changed over the years, there is no denying that it is still important to keep your man happy in a relationship because when he is happy, you will be too.

Feminists, please put down your arms and revel in the fact that women now have the power to call the shots and decide what makes their man happy. It no longer entails just the opening of legs for sex and childbirth.

At the end of the day, if you love someone, you should try your best to make them happy, irrespective of your gender.

# Lengthen the leash

Whether you have been dating for three weeks, or been married for three decades, you have to give your man some breathing room. The same way you need girl time, he needs boy time.

Remember to never let him feel guilty about leaving you at home for the boys. Give him some freedom to be himself and to spend time with his friends. They are important to him and you should not take that away from him.

# Let him win sometimes

No one likes losing battles on a regular basis, so you can imagine how your man feels every time he has to kowtow to your decisions and arguments. Whether it is establishing who let the raccoon in when they forgot to close the garage door, or something as simple as choosing whether to have Indian or Thai for dinner, let your man win every so often.

# Feed him

I suppose the cliché rings true. According to all six of the men questioned, a surefire way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. They find that women who cook are more sexy and confident than women who do not. Gone are the days of takeout menus and greasy drive-through burritos. As a man ages, so does his palate. Nothing pleases a man more than a hearty home cooked meal made by the love of his life.

# Unexpectedly pleasure him

When he least expects it, jump on him, in the literal sense, of course. Men love being surprised by sexual encounters. Whether it is swinging by his office during lunch time to give him a blow job or greeting him at home dressed in nothing but his favorite tie, pleasure him whenever you get the chance to.

# Pay

It does not mean that chivalry is dead if you pick up the tab now and then. Give your man’s wallet a break, be an independent woman and treat him to dinner. Even if he makes more than you, it does not mean that he should pay every time. You will be surprised at how turned on men get when they know their sweetheart can handle her own.

# Drive a stick

Never get between a man and his driving machine. Whether it is a beat up old Ford or a sweet Audi A8, do not underestimate how much love a man has for his vehicle. You will be surprised at how sexy men find women who can drive manual transmission vehicles. If you cannot drive a stick, learn. Perhaps that’s why French women are so desirable. All of them drive stick shifts.

# Do what he loves

Take the initiative to partake in activities that he enjoys, no matter how silly you think it is. Whether it is learning the ins and outs of Magic: The Gathering, or paragliding off a cliff, you need to make the effort to be enthusiastic about the things he loves. If you cannot bring yourself to base jump off a building with him, then don’t. Just support him as much as you can so he doesn’t have to feel guilty about spending time doing stuff without you.