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7 Ways To Kiss Better And Wow Everyone You Make Out With
By: Kratika Mon, 25 Apr 2022 2:50:02
Kissing is a very unique skill in that you need someone else in order to improve. It’s very difficult to learn how to kiss better without having someone to practice on. That being said, it’s still possible if you’re willing to work for it.
It’s also unique because being a good kisser is subjective. What’s good for someone can be awful for another. This makes it difficult to know if what you’re doing is right for a particular person. However, there are some things that most people tend to enjoy overall and improving those things can help you learn how to kiss better.
If you still want to get better regardless, we’re here to help. These methods can help you improve your kissing immensely. Remember to take your time and move slowly. Feeling out what a person responds well to can help you improve just as much as these tips.
# Make sure they want to kiss you
There’s really not much worse than someone kissing you without permission or without you wanting them to. This is almost a certain way to be the worst kisser and it won’t have anything to do with your skills, either.
Make sure the person you want to kiss actually wants you to. And read the signs correctly, too. Just because someone is being nice, doesn’t mean they want a kiss.
# Think about the timing
You have to time your kiss just right. A lot of what makes an incredible kiss has less to do with the skill and more to do with timing. Wait for a romantic moment when you’re both alone.
Let the conversation die down before moving in a little, then wait a bit longer. Let the air thicken with sexual tension before making your move and it’ll make your kiss better.
# Build up anticipation
Anticipation is half the game when it comes to learning how to kiss better. You really want to let the sexual tension fester for a while. The more anticipation there is, the better the release will be.
How you kiss won’t matter quite as much when there’s a lot of anticipation. They’ll think it’s great no matter what.
# Connect mentally
Even if you’re just looking to make out with someone at a bar on the weekend, having a mental and emotional connection will make them think you’re a better kisser than you are. And although that’s not really a way to become a better kisser, it still works in your favor.
# Keep your breath fresh
Bad breath will ruin even the best of kisses. It’s not such a big deal if you just have mildly unpleasant breath but if it’s really bad, the whole kiss will be awful.
Nobody wants to lean in for a cute kiss only to be met with rancid breath. They don’t want to smell or worse, taste it. Keep some gum or a mint on you at all times and pop one in after you eat.
# Be slow
Don’t be so fast about your kiss. Use slow movements and the kiss will be a lot more sultry. The slower the kiss, the sexier it becomes. Yes, those people in movies always rush into a really powerful, passionate kiss but here in the real world, slow is better.
This way, you have time to gauge if the other person wants the kiss and working slowly with your lips leaves less room for teeth getting in the way or you doing something wrong in general.
# Ease into it
This has more to do with your body and how you lean into the kiss than what you do with your lips. The key here is to lean in slowly and let the other person realize you’re about to kiss them.
Doing this spikes their nerves and is a great way to increase that anticipation. Plus, the smoother you are when easing into it, the better your kiss will feel. It won’t feel forced or rushed, which makes it fantastic.