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7 Ways To Make Your Date Night More Fun
By: Kratika Sun, 07 Feb 2021 5:57:55
Regular date nights can help your relationship in more ways than one. And these sexy ideas, well, they’ll take date night to a whole new level!
Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or a brand new one, there’s no denying the importance of setting aside time for date nights. This is especially true if both of you are busy with work, mortgages, chores, kids, and life in general. Don’t underestimate the importance of spending alone time with your partner because this time together can make or break your relationship.
Before heading out on date night, you have to remember several golden rules. First, promise each other that you won’t fight. You can leave the bad mood at home to be dealt with tomorrow. Second, avoid all unpleasantness at all costs. If you have nothing nice to say, don’t say anything at all. Don’t bring up topics of conversation that will push your partner over the edge, and don’t behave like a petulant child.
Lastly, be sure to do something interactive on date night. Running errands and watching a movie don’t count. Invest time and effort into doing something meaningful and having a heartfelt conversation with your partner. Be sure to leave all distractions at the door.
# Pick each other up
Why not indulge in adult play time and try to pick each other up? Head over to a bar separately, and pretend like you’re meeting each other for the first time. Boys, approach your lady, offer to buy her a drink, and see where the night leads you.
Ladies, accept his drink offer, and lead him on. You’ll definitely get a kick out of acting like perfect strangers. You can create backstories for your characters and even indulge in a naughty quickie in the men’s room.
# Role play
Speaking of backstories, why not tailor-make one especially for date night? You can create characters for yourselves and act out the roles. For example, CIA spy Daniel York aids CDC researcher Abigail Sway to find a cure for a viral outbreak, and the only successful way to do it is to procreate.
Fancy an abduction fantasy? How about a teacher-student storyline? No matter how elaborate or cheesy your role play scenario is, you will be sure to have a blast.
# Kick up the kink
Spice up your date by kicking up the kink. From being very hands on under perfectly laid linen tablecloths to indulging in a quickie in the parking lot, there’s nothing quite like the thrill of getting caught to spice up a night out with your lover.
# Dress up
Ladies, invest in some sexy lingerie, and give your lover a sneak peek during dinner. Behave like a seductress on the prowl, and get your man all hot and bothered over appetizers. Gentlemen, when it comes to underwear, less is more, so why not just hang loose? It’ll give your lady love a glimpse of your package and let her know just what’s waiting for her when you guys get home.
# Go somewhere unconventional
Many couples run out of ideas on where to go and what to do on date night. Most end up heading out to a restaurant, and more often than not, it’s somewhere they’ve been multiple times before. Why not get creative with it?
# Pick up an activity
Want to learn how to tango? What about salsa or swing? Instead of indulging in a conventional dinner-and-a-movie date night, you can spice up your evenings with your partner by picking up a skill. Why not start with dancing? This way, you’ll have something to work towards together, and when you’re done with classes, you can head out dancing and make everyone around you jealous.
# Check into somewhere fancy
There’s nothing wrong with pampering yourselves every so often and splurging on romance. Turn date night into a two-day-one-night event, and check into a luxury hotel. Pig out on fancy room service, watch cable till kingdom come, and have a go at it everywhere and anywhere in the room.