7 Ways To Respond When A Girl Rejects You

By learning how to respond when a girl rejects you, you’ll be able to handle anything that comes flying your way in life. Rejection is hard but once you overcome it, you’re invincible—well, almost.

Now, since you’re a guy, you should know that you’re going to get rejected. This may or may not have something to do with you, but even if it did, so what?

You’re going to learn that rejection is a part of not only the dating world but in life. You may not get the job you wanted, or your parents won’t let you have the car on Friday night, these things are going to happen.

# Not everyone is going to love you

Realize that not everyone is going to want to be with you. Once you accept that, rejection becomes a little easier to handle.

It’s still hard when you have feelings for someone, but you can’t control how someone feels for you and that’s not her fault. This doesn’t mean it’s your fault either, it simply means you are not a match.

# Keep your cool

You’re going to be upset. Like anyone being rejected, the first thing you’re going to be is hurt and then, well, a little angry. But listen, this isn’t the moment for you to freak out and start yelling at her. No, no, no. Just chill and play this off cool. You can freak out later in the privacy of your own home, but for now, keep it under control.

# Don’t take it personally

Let’s say you met this girl at a bar, and you tried to hit on her. She rejected you. Can you blame her for rejecting you? She doesn’t know anything about you, but she’s rejecting what you’re presenting her.

Now, if she’s known you for a while and she rejects a move you make on her, she obviously doesn’t see you being a successful match.

# Understand no two women are the same

There are no two women that are the same. Some women love cheesy pickup lines while other girls don’t. Your approach may work for one girl, but it won’t necessarily work for every girl. Work on your approach and understand how to alter it depending on the woman you’re talking to.

# Reflect on what you did

The only way you can gain more successes rather than rejections is to actually reflect on what happened. What did you say to her? How did you approach her? Now, it could just be that you chose the wrong girl at the wrong time, but if you’re noticing you’re getting rejected often, ask yourself why.

# Leave your ego at the door

If you let your ego get in the middle of this, you’re going to say things to hurt her and you at the end. After you get rejected, you should shrug it off. You can laugh, pretend to cry, shrug your shoulders, and continue to the next girl. If you allow it to stick to you, you’ll put yourself in a negative mood, and that’s the end of the night for you.

# Know when she’s rejecting you

The worst thing that can happen is when you stick around longer then someone wants you to. Know the signs of when you’re being rejected. When you see the signs early enough, pull out.

She’s going to reject you whether it’s in two minutes or ten minutes. Pull out before she rejects you, that way, you leave on a high note. And you changed the power tactics which may catch her attention.