7 Ways To Turn Your Boyfriend On While Texting

When my boyfriend first started sexting with me, I was terrified, and I’m a writer! Of course, I’ve had sex before this, but sexting makes you use your imagination and think about what you want to do to them. That’s why you need to know how to turn your boyfriend on while texting.

You don’t have to write them a sexting essay. In fact, there are a couple ways to sext your boyfriend with or without words. So, if you’re a beginner at sexting, here are some ways to develop your skills without looking like a first-timer. Trust me, I ended up using “haha” at the end of my sexts, rookie mistake.

# It’s not an everyday event

It loses its charm if you’re sexting every day. Not that you don’t turn him on, you do, but you should using sexting as a way to tease him and make him run home to you. I wouldn’t recommend using it every day, use it as a way to shock or surprise him. Eventually, if you do this daily, none of you will find the excitement in it anymore.

# Don’t always be naughty

You’re probably thinking sexting is all about being naughty, which is a decent assumption, but it doesn’t always have to be naughty. You don’t have you send him a nude or tell him all the dirty details. Though he’ll expect that, he’ll be even more surprised when you play nice instead.

# Show a little boob

For you, they’re just boobs. For him, they’re heavenly pillows. If your goal is to sext, sending a boob pic is a 100% guaranteed way to achieve your goal. Men are visual, so if you send him a full body or boob shot, he’ll be drooling. Just make sure you’re sending it to someone you trust, or better yet, keep your face out of the shot.

# Get burlesque

Though boob and body shots are naughty, you can add some mystery by taking a photo with your clothes on. Gasp! I know! Take a shot of your hand around your neck, with your teeth biting your finger, or a shot of your cleavage. You don’t have to be naked to be sexy. I mean, when you first met, you were most likely clothed… I think.

# Keep the sext short

If you’re wondering how to turn your boyfriend on while texting, start by keeping your sexts short. No one wants to read an essay when they’re horny. This isn’t a textbook so keep your sext relatively short. That way they can quickly read it and have time to imagine it. If your sext is too long, they’ll be spending more time reading it than touching themselves.

# Use details and descriptions

Your inner J.K. Rowling can come out now. Use a lot of detail and description. You want him to be able to visualize what he’s doing to you or what you’re doing to him. Think of it like you’re explaining sex to someone who’s a virgin. For example, I want your hands to go up my skirt, feeling your way up my thigh.

# Let him know what turns you on

Though you’re getting him turned on, this is a great opportunity to show him what turns you on. When you’re sexting describe what you want him to do to you. This is the best and easiest way to get them to do it. Like they’re going to forget that.