8 Best Get To Know You Questions To Ask Someone You Like

Relationships of any kind, be it a romantic relationship or a friendship, are all about compatibility. But what’s the best way to get to know if someone is compatible with you, or just gets you? Well, that’s where the best kind of deep yet fun get to know you questions can help you!

In a new relationship, even if there’s a lot of infatuation and sexual tension to start with, all it takes is a few wrong likes and dislikes to fall apart.

Honestly, for a relationship to be successful, the two people involved can have different likes and dislikes, but their principles towards life and their approach towards the future have to be the same.

If one of you likes working hard and loves planning out the future, while the other person lives for the moment and loves spontaneity, it is bound to leave one of you with a few moments of repressed anger.Getting to know the one you love early into a relationship can help both of you learn more about each other faster.

# Are you an animal lover or would you avoid keeping animals at home?

Animal lovers are givers and make the time and energy to invest in something beyond themselves. They see purpose in sharing their love with a furry friend.

Unless you have animal allergies, a person who chooses not to have a pet around is more invested in themselves or prefers to invest in their own life and future, than on something else like a pet. Neither is wrong, it’s just a personal preference.

# Do you like summer or winter?

This seems like a silly get to know you question, but can tell you a lot about their personality and date preferences.

Someone who loves summer is more outgoing and extroverted, and someone who loves the winter usually prefers an intimate and personal setting.

# Would you diet or would you work out to lose weight?

Which is more important to them, or is it both? Everyone assumes dieting is easy, and working out is hard.

As a novice who isn’t aware of how the body works, a lazier person may prefer to diet instead of working out every day. *but anyone who plans over the long term knows that following a diet is way harder, and way more effective*

By asking this question, you’d understand if they’re short-sighted or think ahead when it comes to their goals. And most importantly, how important is fitness and appearance to them?

# What do you wear to bed?

Do they prefer sleeping naked? Do they wear an old tee shirt? Or do they wear the comfiest or sexiest pajamas to bed?

Self-love is important, and feeling sexy is too. This get-to-know-you question will answer all of that for you.

# What’s your favorite clothing brand?

This isn’t just about style but also finances. Are they someone who likes showing off with brand names? Do they live within their means?

# When was the last time you cried?

Do they cry often, or was the last time they cried over a year ago? Are they comfortable being vulnerable around you? What made them cry?

Someone who is comfortable with sharing this detail is emotionally secure. And someone who instantly feels uncomfortable, well, they probably have layers you need to peel back.

# Which color reflects your personality and why?

This is a unique get to know you question that seems casual and pointless. But every color invokes a certain kind of feeling and creates a lifestyle around it. Do you both like colors that complement each other?

# In the animal kingdom, which animal would you be?

There are so many animals to choose from. The animal they choose reveals a lot about the kind of personality or life they aspire to have.