8 Biggest Signs Your Boyfriend Really Means It When He Says I Love You

So he says he loves you. And that’s all great. But is he really in love with you or is he just trying to get into your pants? Sometimes, when a man says “I love you” it’s not easy to really understand his intentions, especially when he’s trying hard to win you over. Or worse, just sleep with you! But by the time you’re done with this article, you’ll be able to read all the signs your guy means it when he says I love you, or even if he’s faking it!

If you’re in a new relationship and your boyfriend tells you that he loves you, keep an eye on these signs here. In all probability, these signs will help you find out if he really means it. And it’ll help you know for sure if he’s just saying it because that’s what you want you hear from him.

# He says it first.

There’s no pressure or need to say that he loves you, but he still says it when you least expect it *and he doesn’t expect sex in return*. He’s not forced into it and you haven’t asked him a question like “do you love me?” He says it because he means it.

# He looks into your eyes without awkwardness.

His eyes reveal his feelings for you. He stares into your eyes tenderly and lovingly when he says that he loves you. If a guy is lying, you’d realize that his gestures are words don’t seem to synchronize well.

# He squeezes you.

Does your boyfriend squeeze your fingers or your arm when he says he loves you? When you really care about someone and love them, you can’t help but want to wrap them really tightly in your arms.

# The long kiss.

He says he loves you after kissing you passionately, and then he comes closer again and continues to kiss you for several more seconds.

# He holds your hands.

When you’re sitting next to him, has he held your hands gently and played with your fingers or stroked them while saying “I love you” ? He may be feeling awkward or shy to say it, but his overwhelming emotions may force him to pour his heart out to you.

# The cozy hug.

He hugs you affectionately, and kisses your neck while saying how much he loves you. Hugs, cuddles and kisses always make us weak and vulnerable. And we can’t help but say the things we really want to say!

# When you least expect it.

A guy who’s trying to sleep with you would say that he loves you when he thinks you’re expecting to hear it. But if a guy truly loves you, he’d say it not just when he thinks you want to hear it, but even in moments when you least expect him to say it.

# He sounds serious.

The tone of his voice would reveal just how serious he is. He looks you into your eyes, and tells you matter-of-factly that he loves you. He’s not saying it to get something back in return, he’s saying it with the sole intention of letting you know that he really loves you.