8 Signs A Married Man Is Attracted To You And You Should Shut Him Down

Now, we have to remember that just because a married man is nice to you, doesn’t mean he wants to get in your pants. Many women make the mistake of assuming a married guy wants them and it can cause some trouble for both parties. Knowing the signs a married man is attracted to you and actually wants you can help avoid that.

Besides the obvious reason, there are many more as to why you should never be with someone who’s married. First of all, he’s already in a relationship. Why would you want to be with someone who’s already with someone else?

You also can’t trust them. They’re sneaking around and lying to their spouse. What makes you think they wouldn’t do the same to you? Married men who try to date or sleep with other women on the side are disrespectful, mean people. You wouldn’t want to date someone who’s not married with those same qualities. Right? The signs can be hard to read if you’re not sure what to look for. But knowing if a married man is hitting on you is useful knowledge to have so you can stay away from them. Here are all the signs a married is attracted to you and not just being nice.

# He keeps coming by you

Whenever a married guy keeps showing up next to you, it a big sign he must like you. Why else would he be making excuse after excuse just to be near you? If he’s sporting a ring on his finger and you know he’s married, his presence next to you could be a sign you should run far away, because he likes you.

# He’s complimented your appearance a lot

It’s one thing to tell someone they’re hard working, it’s another to continuously compliments their hair or how they look in general. If a married man is telling you how attractive you are, he’s totally into you.

# He’s taken an interest in your personal life

Does a married guy ask you a bunch of personal questions? Is he trying to learn more and more about your private life?

If so, he could be into you. When a married man is investing in your life and learning more about who you really are, it’s likely because he likes you. Be careful with how much you give him or you’ll risk making him believe you’re also into him.

# He doesn’t talk about his personal life

On the flip side, if he refuses to talk about his personal life but asks about yours, he could like you. He’s married. Therefore, his personal life involves his wife and family, if they have kids.

He won’t want to remind you of that if he likes you and is potentially trying to have a side relationship with you. He’ll keep mostly to himself unless he sees a similarity if you have. Then he’ll point it out to show you there’s a connection.

# He tries to hide his left hand from you

This will be a poor attempt to hide the fact that he’s married without actually having to take off his ring. If you notice he’s always got his left hand in his pocket or hidden but you’ve seen a ring on that hand before, he’s definitely hiding it. Which also means he probably likes you, a lot.

# He gives you a ton of eye contact

This is an overall sign that someone likes you in general. If a man is married and he’s making ridiculous eye contact and even doing so across the room, he likes you. Be careful with this and make sure not to send him the wrong message my returning his gazes.

# He smiles whenever you come near

One of the biggest signs a married man is attracted to you is excessive smiling whenever you approach him. It’s an instinctual reaction. He can’t help it. It means you really excite him and make him super happy. This usually indicates a level of attraction he has for you.

# He initiates the conversations

When someone else is always starting the conversation with you, they want to talk to you a lot more than you want to talk to them. If a married guy is doing this, he clearly wants to talk to you.