8 Subtle Signs A Coworker Likes You And Wants Something More Than Friendship

Many couples meet at work, but it is always a little risky to go for it initially. None of us want to put our jobs in jeopardy, so knowing the subtle signs a coworker likes you helps make the choice a whole lot simpler.

While it can be quite complicated to mix personal lives and work, many people actually find relationships at work. It’s not for everyone but if this is something you’re okay with, why not? Before you take things a step further with a coworker you like, you need to know if they like you back first.

Or maybe, there’s already a coworker who’s dropping subtle hints they like you, but you’re confused. But how to tell if a coworker likes you for sure? That way, you can avoid embarrassment.

# They stare

This is one of those subtle signs a coworker likes you *a lot more than you think*. When someone stares, they like you. And it doesn’t mean they are being creepy or ogling. They just are attracted to you and get distracted by that.

So if your coworker is staring at you, don’t be weirded out about it, but take it as a compliment and sign that they like you! For all you know, they could even be checking you out.

# They know what’s going on with you

When a coworker likes you, they seem always to know what is going on with you. Whether they are up to date on all your Instagram stories or know the project you’re working on, they are always interested. This means that they’ve either been subtly stalking your social media accounts, or they really listen to your stories and everything you say.

Whichever it is, they’re still concrete indicators that they like you and are interested in you. Knowing what you’re doing gives them a reason to talk to you. If you want to know how to tell if a coworker likes you, think about how much they know about your life outside of work.

# They make time for you

When you’re at work, the priority is work, right? Well, one of the subtle signs a coworker likes you is when they are taking time away from that for you. No matter how busy their schedule is, they can always insert quality time for you – and that’s how you know they like you.

There’s no way you would give someone even just a portion of your time if you don’t like them or have feelings for them.

# They talk to you about non-work topics

We all have work friends. Someone who is showing subtle signs they like you will be more in-depth. They won’t just rant about your boss or Angie in accounting messing up your check.

If they talk about something in their personal life, such as their interests, what they did over the weekend, and what their family is like, you’re not just a coworker to them.Why else would they openly share these things with you if they don’t like you? That’s how to tell if a coworker likes you.

# They cling to you at work events

One of the most unmistakable subtle signs a coworker likes you is the effort they make to spend time with you. Not only will they double-check that you are coming to the company picnic or holiday party, but they will be waiting for you to arrive.

Since they like you, they only have their eyes on you, even at work events and parties. Watch out for signs such as finding a reason to talk to you and making all kinds of excuses to talk to you.

# They make you a priority

This is an obvious one as no coworker should make you a priority unless they like you. This can mean anything from making sure you’re handling your workload to reaching out if you’re late or bringing you soup when you’re sick.

They always make sure you’re doing okay and regularly check in. Especially if they drop their plans just to spend time with you, then they like you!

# They remember what you say

This is huge. If you’re anything like most people, you probably zone out at work a lot, especially when your coworker is talking about their aunt’s Sunday brunch. But, if a coworker likes you, they will remember every detail you share.

If you told them you were going to your grandmother’s birthday party over the weekend and that you bought her a sweater, they will follow up on Monday by asking if your grandmother liked the sweater. Taking note of small things is a subtle but strong sign a coworker likes you.

# They notice any changes to your look

Physical appearance is everything when figuring out if they like you. Did you cut your hair or buy a new suit? This is the person who will notice. It might be such a simple detail, but they’ll definitely notice if there’s something about your physical appearance that you’ve changed. Maybe it’s your hair, your clothes, or anything else. They won’t shy away from giving you a compliment.