8 Things To Talk About With Your Girlfriend

Want to build a better romance and get closer to your girlfriend? Sometimes, the right kind of interesting things to talk about with your girlfriend can do just that and more.

One of the things you need to know about happy relationships is that it always has to move forward. Both partners need to add new things into a relationship to keep it exciting and fun. There are many ways to help a relationship grow, but nothing beats communication, especially in a new relationship.

Use these things to talk about with your girlfriend, and you’ll be able to make her feel closer to you and increase the intimacy too. You can bring these conversations up whenever you’re just hanging out together. The best part is that you don’t have to talk about all of them at once, just pick one and talk about it. Before you know it, both of you will have hours of conversation and all of that can start with just one simple question from this list of topics to talk about.

# Talk about your future

Talk about your life, the things you want to do, your aspirations and other things along that line. Girls always like a guy who sees his future and works towards it. You can be spontaneous, fun and live for the moment, but as long as you have a focused life, she’ll be awed by your determination and will like you more.

It’s an evolution thing. Men have a subconscious need to protect and hunt, and women have a need to feel secure and nurture. It’s what evolution has taught us to do, and even though the roles have changed greatly over the centuries, the things that attract girls to a guy hasn’t changed yet. [Read: 28 ways to be a better boyfriend and make your girl feel lucky in love]

# Talk about her interests, her friends and her family

Ask her about her friends, her family and their lives, and have long conversations about her interests and the things she likes to do when she’s got time on her hands. Talking about your girlfriend’s interests will help her see that you’re genuinely interested in knowing everything about her and her life.

Talking about her interests can also help both of you bond better too. And if you do meet her friends or family sometime, you’d know everything about them, which will help you make all the right conversations with them and charm them in the very first conversation! [Read: The obvious and subtle signs your girlfriend’s friends don’t like you]

# Talk about her views on life

All of us have our own individual views about life. But yet, we don’t share them with everyone in the world. By finding out more about her views on life, you’ll understand her better and know more about what she wants to do in future and what her real goals in life are.

# Gossip

Daily gossip is something that’s always interesting, and she’ll be able to talk for a long time about things that are happening in her own life. Ask her about her work and her colleagues and everything else that goes on during her work hours.

Talking about movies and shows on the television can be great gossip too. If both of you like the same movies or shows, both of you will have a lot of opinions and things to talk about for hours on end.

# Talk about your secrets

Everyone loves a good secret. Do you have a few secrets that you don’t generally tell everyone you meet? Then share that secret with her. It’ll flatter her and make her see that you trust her enough to share your deep secrets with her.

And before you know it, she’ll start sharing her secrets with you, and become much more intimate with you.

# Your childhood and your past

Childhood memories are always fun to talk about and to listen to, especially if it involves an embarrassing or funny incident. Talk about your first crush, your good looking teacher, the first time you got drunk or the time you did something silly. Your girlfriend will definitely have a good laugh and enjoy spending time with you.

# Vacations and date ideas

Talking about dates and holidays is always a fun time in a relationship. Most of us spend an entire year dreaming of the vacation to come, or spend a whole week planning the next romantic date. So why not share your ideas with her?

She’ll love talking about date ideas that interest her, especially when it comes to new movies, restaurants, and fun things to do together, be it planning a vacation together or coming up with ideas to spend the whole of Saturday together. [Read: The 25 best six month anniversary date ideas and 100+ romantic date ideas]

# Compliments and romance

Compliment your girlfriend about her dress or something special she did for you. Every girl feels appreciated and loved when she hears a genuine compliment from the guy she likes. Talk to her about how beautiful she looked on the last date, or how sweet her voice sounds over the phone.

Good compliments always lead to better romance and more romantic conversations. Always remember to make your girlfriend feel loved and appreciated, and let her know just how special she is and how important she is in your life.