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8 Things You Need To Know To Recognize The Signs Of A Crazy Girlfriend
By: Kratika Sun, 15 Jan 2023 12:41:09
Have you ever experienced having a psycho girlfriend? If you haven’t, then you’re one of the lucky ones! From the word itself, they can literally drive you to the edge of your sanity!
It’s so important to beware of the telltale signs of a psycho girlfriend, especially if you've never encountered one before. You never know, this could be your next relationship and you'd save yourself a lot of mess by reading this!
Psycho, at least in this feature, just means the general expression of being creepier than most girlfriends. It means that a psycho girlfriend is someone who is extremely clingy, needy, and probably a bit unstable.
# She stares and stalks you when you sleep
You’ve probably woken to her staring at you adorably while you were sleeping. Sure, it’s cute and sweet, but if she does it every time you sleep, then be warned, my man! This is a surefire sign that she’s not just obsessed with you, but a psycho girlfriend.
Yes, it’s completely okay to adore our significant others, but when it comes off as creepy, that’s no longer okay! Those girls are usually the type to not only watch you sleep, but they actually might be keeping a close eye on you wherever you go.
Whatever form of stalking, they’re probably an expert at it. They’re watching your every move so you better watch out. Think: social media, hidden tracking devices, and a host of ingenious spy gadgets that will put James Bond to shame.
# She reads your texts
With a psycho girlfriend, there’s no such thing as respecting your privacy and boundaries. She wants to know everything there is to know about your life, including your private messages. Whether it’s your email, social media accounts, and text messages, she reads everything.
When you try to talk of boundaries, she either manipulates you by crying, storming out, being all hurt, or doing the silent treatment on you. Honestly, dealing with a psycho girlfriend is just so insane but it happens!
# She knows all your passwords
Obviously, the only way she’d be able to read all your messages is if she knows all your passwords herself. This is one of the big red flags that you have a psycho girlfriend. Not only does she not trust you, but she wants to know everything in your private life.
There is nothing about this that’s healthy. If I were you, I’d stay far away from where she can’t see, hear, or touch you! Why would anyone in their right mind need the password to your Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram?
# She hangs out with you and your buddies every single time
Again, a psycho girlfriend doesn’t understand the importance of respecting boundaries. In other words, she’s incapable of this and wants to be with you every chance she gets. She might seem like one of the boys at first – which is very cool and chill of her.
However, you’ll find her true colors start to reveal when you tell her you’re going to have a boys night without her. She’ll then go into suspicious mode. The suspicious girlfriend mode is when she asks you if there are other girls with you and if you say no, she probably won’t believe you.
Afterward, she’ll gaslight you into thinking it’s your fault rather than hers. She’ll cry, make you feel bad, and eventually, you would have to bring her along just so she feels safe.
# She is very subtly manipulative
A psycho girlfriend knows the tricks because she uses them all the time. She can manipulate you into any situation she wants. This is one of the most frustrating things about dealing with her.
Even if you want to break up or leave her, she’ll manipulate you the best way she can. The worst part? It’s a manipulation that’s going to work.
# She calls in to “check on you” in the middle of the night
Your girlfriend has mastered the art of being psycho in the most subtle manners that you don’t even notice when it’s so obvious.
Your girlfriend could pretend that she’s just calling or facetiming you because she misses you, but she’s just checking if you’re not talking to other women. Sounds absurd, right? That’s because she is!
# She texts you using different numbers to bait you
If your girlfriend has completely lost it, she’ll likely text you using different numbers, pretending to be a different girl, and see how you’ll react to each one. It’s insane how she’ll go through such great lengths to test your loyalty and love, but she’ll definitely do this.
This is just proof of her psychotic and unstable nature. The thing is, she might pass this off as a joke, and you might end up believing her!
# She’s on a first-name basis with your parents – and she texts them regularly
It might be a dream come true to have your girlfriend become close to your parents. However, it’s also a concrete sign of a psycho girlfriend, especially when you’ve only been dating for weeks! Nobody in their right mind would do this, so it’s pretty obvious that she’s not thinking clearly.