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9 Signs To Tell If Two People Are Sleeping Together
By: Kratika Tue, 19 Apr 2022 12:38:44
Body language is powerful. If you’re wondering how to tell if two people are sleeping together, body language will tell you everything you need to know!
You can tell a lot by someone’s body language. In many ways, a lot more than the words they say.
For instance, you can easily tell someone is angry when they’re telling you nothing is wrong, or if someone is spinning you a lie. And you can tell if someone is upset and not keen to tell you why.
# They seem slightly closer in general
You’ll get it. You won’t even need to look, they’ll just stand a little closer than normal, almost like an invisible piece of string is pulling them together.
Learning how to tell if two people are sleeping together can be as easy as watching the distance they keep between one another, or the distance they don’t keep.
You can also tell when they’re sleeping together but they’ve had a fallout, as the distance will change! Learning to understand body language overall is a great tool and skill. It will also help you in many other situations in life too.
# Look out for the lingering looks
Can you see looks that last for just a second or two longer than normal? That’s a surefire sign that something a little deeper than friendship is going on. Things have probably progressed to another level.
These looks may be fleeting, literally half a second more than usual, but they’ll certainly be there if two people have done the deed.
Be careful not to stare while looking for this sign. A quick glance will give you all the information you need!
# They seem super-comfortable touching each other more often
Everyone playfully touches another person from time to time, usually as a joke, but if you notice two people doing it more often, perhaps when they never did before, this is a sign that something is going on between the two of them.
For instance, a graze against the side might seem innocent, but the side of someone’s body is a sensitive spot.
If someone is constantly touching that area and the other person isn’t flinching in shock or laughing because it tickles, the chances are that they’re used to this person touching them!
# They suddenly become very protective of one another
Men become protective of someone they’ve slept with. Simply, their protective instincts kick in. Women are the same in a less obvious way.
A woman might be seen silently watching what is going on when someone is talking about their sleeping partner, interjecting when things seem to be going too far. A man might confront the person who may be speaking about their partner.
If you haven’t noticed them ‘sticking up’ for this person in the past, that might be a good pointer toward what is going on behind closed doors.
# They seem to communicate in a secret language
Do they suddenly seem to have a new way of communicating? It could be a look or a joking language they come up with. You’ll know because it’s different from anything you’ve seen from them before.
They’re not likely to be at the finishing each other’s sentences stage, but you may notice them taking more interest in what the other one is saying. They will also communicate nonverbally, with looks and eye contact.
# You will see them together more, at unusual times
Are you still wondering how to tell if two people are sleeping together? If you spot them out and about together at very strange times, the chances are they’re meeting up for something for more than a quick chat!
For instance, you see them out together early in the morning, that’s a pretty clear sign that they spent the night together. Equally, if you see them wandering around late at night, you should question why, and where they’re going.
# They suddenly have more to say about each other
If you notice that the other person’s name is cropping up in conversation a lot more than before, the chances are there’s something going on, or they have developed a crush.
And if you call them out on it, asking why they’re talking about the other person suddenly, they’re likely to start fumbling over their words. If this happens, that’s a definite sign that they’re sleeping together and don’t want anyone else to know!
# They tease each other more
If you notice that they are purposely annoying or teasing the other person, that could be their form of flirting. They do it to provoke a reaction from the other one, and they think they’re being sly and no one else notices.
They might think that other people will think they don’t like each other when they do the little insults between them. But usually, they’re not fooling anyone because it’s pretty obvious.
# They carefully choose their words
When you ask them what they’re doing this weekend, they will hem and haw and try to purposely choose the words they say. It doesn’t just flow out naturally like it would with anyone else.
The reason for this is that when someone is trying to hide something, they have to purposely choose to speak in a manner that will cover up what they don’t want people to know.