9 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back

The breakup is already bad, but what makes it harder is the mixed signals from your Ex. He would call and then disappears, he would say he is over you but keeps coming back to you for lame things, he would try to get your attention when you are with someone else, but will avoid you when you are trying to get his attention.

It not only confuses you but also makes your heart break harder to forget. He sends signals but never admits. So how will you figure if your ex really wants you back. Here are a few signs for you that will tell you if your ex wants you back in his life.

# Your Ex Contacts You Frequently

If he is calling you often for silly reasons or if he keeps texting you or sends you messages and comments on Facebook, it might be a sign he is still thinking about you and he might want you back. But let him be the one to call you. Let your ex admit he wants you back. It will let you know how sincere he is.

# He Shares His Life

Does he keep telling you what’s going on in his life and share even a silly problem with you? He might not admit but it is a sign he still cares for you and wants you back. It also means he still values your opinion and trusts your judgement. Through this, your ex is trying to let you know whether he is dating or not and trying to signal you he misses you.

# Takes Interest In Your Life And Backs You Up Like Old Times

If he is interested in what you are doing in his life and he might keep enquiring if you are dating someone else. Does he act jealous when he sees you with someone else and demand your attention? These are the signs that your ex wants you back in his life but doesn’t want to reveal.

# You Are The First Person To Know

If he always comes to you first to share any new development and significant stuff in his life, it is a sign that your ex wants you back. It also means he still values you and that you still hold a special place in his life. Let him know you appreciate being that important person in his life, even after the breakup but just don’t jump up and down in front of him because he has yet to admit that upfront.

# Dilemma Of Dating Means He Is Still Held Back

If your ex is still not sure about dating anyone else and have let you know his dilemma about it, it is a sure sign he wants you back. Even if he doesn't admit. If he has been on a date and doesn't let you know because he thought you will get hurt, it means he still cares and is not sure about anyone else. There may be times when he doesn’t take the first date to the second because he finds the girl not up to the mark set by you.

# Ex Moving Back In Memorylane Is A Sign

Is your ex reminding you of your sweet old memories? Does he keep talking about the places you have been to together and things you have done together? If he misses the trips you both took together, it is a sign he wants you back.

# He Is Sorry And Wants To Turn Back Time

If he often brings up the reason for your breakup and often talks through the things that went wrong in your relationship, it means he regrets the decision of the breakup and thinks things could have been done differently. But listen carefully if he is still blaming you for the breakup. It would mean that your ex is not yet past the bitterness of the breakup. But if he is thoughtful and empathetic, it is a sign he wants you back.

# Your Ex Flatters You

If he keeps complimenting you on your dress, looks and other things, if he gifts you flowers without occasion, it means that your ex still notices you and wants you back. If he still calls you by the sweet names and takes notice of even the small changes in you, he might not admit but it is a sign he is still pinned on you.

# Your Ex Stealing Touches

Have you ever felt unnecessary harmless touches from your ex like holding your hand, cleaning a non existing crease on your dress and touching lightly on the small of your back while escorting you? It is a sign he still cherishes your company and craves for your closeness. It also shows that he wants you back.