9 Tips To Help You Be The Best Girlfriend

Relationships aren’t easy. If they were, no one would be getting divorced, and everyone would have a significant other. The truth is, there’s a lot of work put into a relationship and not everything comes easy.

Many women jump through hoops to get a guy to like them, and then they don’t do anything to make him stick around once he’s hers. This is one of the biggest mistakes out in the dating world today. It seems like too many people work for the chase but not for the catch.What would you do if some guy tried to sweep you off your feet by bringing you flowers, opening the car door for you, buying you gifts you love, and suddenly just stopped doing all of it once you said yes to being his girlfriend?Most likely, you’d be mad and probably wouldn’t be with him much longer. Am I right? Why? Because he’s not doing anything to make you want to stay!If you really want to make your man stay, then you need to be a kick-ass girlfriend. Here’s how to be the best girlfriend he’s ever had and make him want to stay for good.

# Be attentive

First, pay attention to him. Make sure you’re present in his life and not just a bystander he calls his girlfriend. Watch how his likes and dislikes change and pay attention to them. You’ll be able to better understand him and provide him with things he likes.

# Be nice to his friends

Even if you don’t like them, be nice to them. A man’s friends are extremely important to him, and the bond between them is something most women don’t get. So get along with them. He’ll love you that much more for the effort.

# Don’t nag him

There is an art form to getting your boyfriend to do something you want. Nagging is NOT the way to go. A good girlfriend avoids nagging; otherwise, her boyfriend gets annoyed real fast.

# Understand his man time

Guys need time to themselves without the presence of their girlfriend. If you really want to be the best girlfriend, leave him alone sometimes.

# Be confident

Surprisingly enough, a woman’s confidence impacts a man’s happiness in the relationship. If your boyfriend has an insecure girlfriend, he deals with your jealousy, body insecurity, and the extra pressure to make you feel good about yourself.

# Don’t make him jealous for fun

Some girlfriends think it’s funny or a confidence boost when their boyfriend feels jealous and mad because of another guy. However, this seriously annoys your boyfriend and will not make him happy. Be a good girlfriend and make him stay by not making him jealous on purpose.

# Cook for him often

And preferably cook his favorite meal. Even if you can’t cook, learn. Take a few classes, look up simple recipes, and make him food, because the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, right?

# Be a sex machine

Sex isn’t the most important part of a relationship by any means, but for a man, it’s up there. Being sexually active with him and doing your best to please him is a crucial ingredient to keeping him happy and making him want to stay.

# Feed his ego

Make him feel manly. Compliment his big muscles, tell him his beard makes him look extra manly, and just feed that ego of his. Men live off their ego, so make sure to boost it whenever you get the chance.