9 Ways To Read The Signs Of Unspoken Attraction

An unspoken attraction is fun to figure out. You have these butterflies in your stomach when you see them, but you’re not sure how they feel so. You spend your day creeping on them on their social media and deciphering everything they do and say to you. So, you know you like them, but what signs of unspoken attraction do they display?

I get it, it’s a little dramatic. But who doesn’t love a little drama every now and then? Exactly. Eventually, you just want to know what’s going on. Usually, this conclusion will happen on its own, especially if they feel the same way about you. I mean, how long can people go liking each other without losing their minds?

Anyways, it’s time for you to get one step closer in figuring out what’s going on between you and this person. Is there an unspoken attraction between you? I know you like them, but it would be nice to figure out if the feeling is mutual, right? So, it’s time we figured it out.

These are the signs of unspoken attraction. Of course, don’t assume there’s an attraction if you only see one sign. There should be a couple of clear signs being displayed before you jump to any conclusions.

So, let’s get this started and have you figuring out what’s really going on between you. Knowing the signs of unspoken attraction are essential skills to have.

# You feel the chemistry

You’re human. You have intuition. You can feel other people’s emotions and reactions to things. This is an amazing skill to have because if you focus on it, you’ll be able to recognize whether or not someone is attracted to you. If you’re feeling a tingling feeling when you’re around someone, there could be an electric exchange going on between you.

# You two naturally are close together

I mean this both in a physical and emotional sense. You are always standing or sitting close together. Something you don’t usually do with other people. But you allow them into your personal space and vice versa. If you’re also sharing a lot of personal information with them, you feel comfortable and trusting in them.

# You tease each other

Teasing is a form of flirting when it’s done genuinely. By teasing someone, you’re showing that you’re close to that person. You can’t tease just anyone, they have to be people who are emotionally connected with you. Teasing is a sign of intimacy and if you poke fun at each other, there’s some unspoken attraction floating around in the room.

# It’s all in the eyes

One of the most obvious ways to figure out if there’s unspoken attraction is with eye contact. Strong eye contact not only shows attraction, but it also makes the person feel more attracted to you as well. Now, they could be shy, so eye contact may not be a dead giveaway, but once the person is more comfortable around you, you’ll notice more eye contact.

# You linger around each other

Usually, we can’t wait for people around us to leave. With this person though, you find yourself overstaying, hanging out with them for as long as possible. With unspoken attraction, you want to see them as much as possible, canceling other plans just to see this person. Are you doing the same thing now?

# They’re emotionally extreme

Okay, this sounds a little spooky, but it’s not. People use emotion as a way to get attention. So, if they’re sad, they’re going to be very sad. If they’re happy, they’re really happy. It’s all about getting the other person’s attention.

# Nervousness

When you like someone, you’re not going to act completely cool and calm. In reality, when you like someone, you’re freaking out inside. Your blood is racing through your body and you can feel your heart pulsate. It’s intense. You or the other person may stutter when speaking or forget your train of thought. In other words, you’re going to be a mess.

# It’s all in the body

Most communication is nonverbal which means you need to be paying attention to their actions, not their words. If you notice them touching you, moving closer to you, and always facing in your direction, this could be an indicator that they want something more. When someone is attracted to you, everything will point in your direction.

# Fixing their appearance

When someone is constantly fixing their appearance, they’re not doing it without reason. If you’re noticing them fixing their shirt, hair, makeup, they’re making sure their appearance is on point. Why? They want you to find them attractive. It’s that simple.