Questions Men Should Ask Woman Before Marriage For Better Understanding

Whenever couples think about meeting each other, the first thing that comes in mind is what will we talk about in the first meeting? This question keeps troubling us and anyway the first meeting is very special, which is always remembered.

But in this meeting, we have usually seen that there are a lot of things in our mind, but on the first meeting, those things are not able to come on the tongue and we remain calm. Getting married is an amusing feeling, but these feelings are multiplied when you have to meet a girl from the perspective of getting married. Although it is a difficult task, yet it is best to know what all a guy should and should not ask a girl.

Well, last thing you would want is a stranger rolling out in laughter at your questions (or worse, get beaten up!). So, here are some questions that guys should ask to get to know the girl better before marriage

#Her marriage expectations

A girl would always like it if a guy asks her views on marriage and expectations related to it. So, if you are meeting a girl for the first time, ask her take on the institution of marriage. This is an important question as it will help you understand her thought process better.

#Do you plan to settle abroad or move to another city?

Does your prospective partner dream about settling abroad or shifting to a new city within the country? If yes, how would that impact your career and personal life? Are you willing to shift your base or maybe, move away from your friends and family? Take your time to think about how shifting to a new city or country would impact your personal and professional life.

#Ask about duties towards her parents

Maybe this question is a big thing to ask, but it will certainly clear many doubts you might have. It will help you to understand, if she has any financial responsibilities towards her parents, which she would like to fulfil even after marriage, just like you.

#Are you ready to accept the responsibilities of both the families?

Marriage comes with a huge set of responsibilities towards your spouse and both the families. In fact, every decision of your partner has a direct impact on your life and the immediate members of the family. Whether it is taking care of the health of your parents and in-laws, managing the finances or their day-to-day needs, both the partner should be on the same page when it comes to handling such responsibilities in married life.

#Ask about her lifestyle

Find out about her social life, her favorite pastime and her other interests. This way you can get to know whether she is an extrovert or an introvert. Such small details can actually help you in deciphering whether she is 'your kind of a girl or not'! Do not go overboard with too many questions as she is not a 'candidate' whom you are 'interviewing' for your wife’s position. You are looking for a life partner who should be compatible with you and your family.

#Are you carrying any emotional baggage?

Break-ups can be brutal and everyone takes his or own time to move on in life. Once you feel the other person has become comfortable in your company, you can politely ask if he or she has any emotional baggage from the past. Remember, it won’t be a good idea to ask too many questions about his or her past in the very first meeting; the idea is to gauge the emotional wellbeing of the person.

#Ask about her choice of clothing

This question is not too important, but at times it becomes quite relevant. If your family is traditional or conservative and the girl loves western wear, then it might be a little difficult for her and your family to gel well. But, keep an open mind, as either you or the girl might be able to compromise on these things