First Night After Marriage? Avoid These 4 Things

The first night after wedding is exceptionally special, because you drop all your physical and emotional inhibitions to bond with your life partner. The first night is not just about making love. It is about getting to know each other, exploring each other`s emotions, and literally seeing your better half in him/her. However, all that can be ruined with just a wrong statement or one awkward question. So, make sure that you don`t end up saying something that would turn your first night (especially, if it is an arranged marriage) into a disappointment.

Do not ask about doing it right away!

You are all set to make love on the first night, but it is important to know how to ease the awkwardness of the entire situation. Well, asking your partner directly about proceeding to the action is a strict no.First, you should try to get comfortable around each other. Start with some small talk. Complimenting your partner,whispering some sweet things and resorting to romantic conversations can help you in building the momentum of the night.

No questions about the past!

Your first night is not the time to dig up graves of your partner`s past relationships. This night is about you two, so do not spoil the moment by bringing in third person.You do not need to know,how your partner’s past relationship was or why it ended? And, asking “Have you ever done it before?” is strictly not required at this moment. Instead, invest the time to create that ultimate moment of love. Just, soak into each other’s company or may be do much more! 

Money matters are a strict no-no

Money matters are important for a married couple, but it is definitely not a topic to indulge in on your first night. First night is about understanding each other, and not about investigating your spouse’s bank balance details. Also, there is no need for you to jump into wedding budget calculations then and there. Such things will have their own proper moment to be discussed later on.

No talks about fantasies

If you have any lovemaking fantasies that you want your partner to know about, do not talk about them on the first night itself. These fantasies might add pressure to your partner’s performance anxiety. A first night is supposed to be like slow romantic music, and not some heavy rock metal. So, do not tell or ask about such wild stuff.