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Signs You Are Falling In One Sided Love
By: Priyanka Tue, 15 Dec 2020 2:10:18
Everyone needs a true partner in their life, who, in every circumstance, is able to spend good time with each other. But due to this search many times we fall in love unilaterally and cannot understand that there is no feeling for us from the other side. This is just one-sided love, which causes a lot of trouble when we know it.
It is not wrong to spend time with someone if you feel good with that person or you feel relaxed when you spend time with them. So of course you can spend time with that person. But it is important to know that keep your relationship clear and do not get into any misunderstanding, because it is often seen that many people start talking and moving about relationship and it is very sad when this confusion breaks and It becomes very difficult to manage oneself.
Therefore, if you understand these things in time, then you will not have to face these situations.
Signs of One-Sided Love-
# The beloved seems absolutely perfect for you. You don’t see any mistake in your beloved even if he/she has. You always justify their mistakes and statements.
#One-sided love makes you feel drained because you commit everything to it and still you get nothing fruitful and satisfying in return.
# The priority of other relationships in your life diminishes and you give all importance to that someone special only.
# You never get the priority that you deserve and you just keep living in your own fantasy world of imagination.
#You keep making excuses to meet the person you love because only seeing him/her makes your day happy.
# Even if your beloved shows signs that he/she is not interested in you, still, you keep on hoping that he/she will love you back one day.
# You probably keep stalking the social media profiles of the beloved and keep close track of all his/her moves and activities.
# You get depressed and unhappy very easily, especially if the person you love ignores you or fails to text or call you back.
#You keep on talking about him/her with your friends the whole day.
# You are the one who always initiates conversations with him/her.
Disadvantages of One Sided Love
#You don't have the right to get jealous but you still do and you can't let that person know about it.
#You sacrifice and suffer but that person doesn't even care.
#You give your everything without receiving anything in return (give and take relationship not attained).
5 EFFECTIVE WAYS TO LET YOUR ONE-SIDED LOVE GO
There are many reasons that you want to move on from your one-sided feeling then you may give these ways a try-
1) Keep a distance
You have to cut all possible connections with your love and especially if you meet daily anywhere like office, college, etc. The reason being, if you’ll spend more time with them it will create memories to remember for the lifetime and these memories will hurt you and trust me not only hurt they can destroy your whole life so try to keep a distance between you.
2) Remember the other aims of your life
You just need to remember one thing that he or she is not your everything, you have many other things or goals to focus on your life so try to consider them first before this one. Start giving time to your passion, hobbies, and interests. They will help you to achieve the goals of your life.
3) Don’t forget you too are someone’s, one-sided love
If you love him/her one-sidedly then don’t forget there must be someone who loves you one-sidedly. Just stop thinking and talking about your one-sided love for them you should start thinking about the love anyone else feels for you.
4) Give a second chance to your life
Don’t be conserved in your life just because of your unsuccessful love just open your arms and try to accept the things. Give one more chance to your love life maybe you’ll get the one who will care a lot for you, who will love you a lot.
5) Accept that your love is someone else’s property
If you love is already committed or having another relationship with someone. Then trust me it’s the best option to get yourself out of all these things because there is no way and no reason left for you to wait. Accept it that he or she is not yours and they are someone else’s.