Here Are 5 Secrets To Help You Get Any Guy

A low-cut top and a smile may lure him in, but you need to appeal to his subconscious to make him approach you. These tips will help you attract hot guys like crazyó even the ones you thought were out of your league.

When youíre gearing up for a night out, you probably have a pretty standard checklist: Sexy top? Clearly. Killer pair of heels? Obvs. But thereís a big difference between a guy checking you out and a guy who canít resist your spell. Thatís why some new research being done on attraction is so intriguing ó it offers subtle, novel strategies for not only grabbing attention but also inspiring plenty of introductions and phone-number exchanges. Get ready to work your come-and-meet-me voodoo by tapping in to the way dudesí brains work.

* Donít Disregard the Basics

For starters, always keep your group of girls nice and small. Itís ideal to go out with just one or two other friends. If youíre with a larger group, pair off for 30-minute intervals to give guys the opportunity to come up to you. Choose your wing-women wisely ó you want to be surrounded by friends who are outgoing and donít need to be babysat ó and avoid standing so that your shoulders are squared toward each other; physical openness will send the message that youíre okay with being approached and not engrossed in an intimate convo. Be sure to plant yourselves in a high-traffic area near the center of the roomÖbut never near an exit. You may get noticed there, but dudes who constantly eyeball the door are likely to be always looking for the next best thing.

* Show Off Your Neck and Shoulders

Now on to more stealthy tactics. Itís certainly no secret that men are visual creatures. However, it turns out that convincing a guy to approach is far more complex than simply undoing an extra button. It has less to do with displaying lots of cleavage and more to do with flaunting your shoulders. While men are evolutionarily attracted to both bare skin and soft, round shapes, they also have a more developed subconscious that equates boobs spilling out of a too-tight dress with desperation. So opt for a slightly more discreet body-skimming halter or tube top to give off a confident, sexy vibe.

A bonus tip: Be sure to draw attention to your neck dimple ó the little indentation beneath your throat and just above your clavicle ó with an eye-catching necklace. Research shows that this often overlooked area is alluring to men because it represents femininity and vulnerability.

* Use Your Drink as a Seduction Prop

A drink can be a great tool if handled correctly ó as a conversation piece or to clink glasses with him flirtatiously. Just avoid using it as a security blanket. To avoid looking like a stress ball with lipstick, set down your cocktail on the bar or a nearby table now and then to use your hands while telling an especially funny story to a friend ó it broadcasts your energy, which is superattractive.

* Subtly Show Off Your Lower Half

Most men wonít appreciate your killer pair of designer heels ó well, most straight guys, anyway ó but strategically encouraging them to bring their focus downward will still work wonders to lure them over. When youíre seated on a banquette or bar stool, try crossing and uncrossing your legs every minute or two. Itís a flirtatious action that draws attention to a body part that men crave touching.

Another trick: While one of your legs is crossed over the other, dangle your shoe from your toes so that itís half off your foot. Not only does this action indicate that youíre unlikely to bolt if he approaches you, but it also suggests that youíre extremely relaxed and self-assured.

* Put on Your Best Game Face

It's not enough just to stand there and look gorgeous. You also have to flash some fierce and flirty looks. We're finding that men need a whole lot more coaxing than you'd think. You have to send a pretty strong message that you'd be receptive to the guy if he actually came over to talk to you. Always smile ó sultry stares will backfire ó and try this sneaky tactic to make him think he already knows you.