Here Are Some Tips To Propose Your Man

Is your man ready for marriage? Read these tips on how to get him to propose soon to understand your man’s mind and help him make that decision.

Men and women think along the same lines when it comes to many things.

But marriage is not one of them.

Well, at least in most cases.

For most women, marriage comes naturally when they meet the man of their dreams.

For most men, marriage comes naturally only when they feel like getting married. This little difference in the way both sexes think can at times cause more than just a few misunderstandings.

If you want to get him to propose to you, talk about it!

It really is the easiest way forward.

After all, both of you have been dating each other for a while, haven’t you?

In a good relationship, both partners have to learn to communicate their wants and desires with each other without really holding back.

* Men have to be mentally ready

Your man has to be mentally prepared to propose and move into the next stage of his life. No one can make up his mind for him, not you or anyone else. It’s a thought that’ll strike him just like a bolt of lightening when he least expects it, and just like that, he’ll be ready to get married.

* Men wait for the right time

Men have a right time for everything in their life, at least most well organized men do. During one of your weekend conversations with him, find out what his goals in life are. Once you hear his dreams, it’ll help you understand his priorities and realize when his right time to get married is.

* He learns from his friends

Men think they can never be manipulated. But in reality, they’re constantly manipulated by people in their lives, discreetly or otherwise. Take a good look at his friends. Are they married? Do you know their opinions on marriage? If all his friends are single, big chances are, he won’t be ready for marriage too. He may love you, but he may not be ready just yet to love you as a wife.

* Don’t change yourself

Don’t withhold something just to punish him. You’d be behaving like a child. Really, do you want him to propose to you happily or do you want to arm twist him, gag him and shove marital bliss down his throat?

* Avoid giving ultimatums. It’ll never work. On the other hand, it might just backfire and force him to harden his stance on not getting married just yet.

* Don’t panic

When it happens, it will. If he feels like he’s ready to propose marriage to you, he will.

* Tell him how you feel

If you can’t stop panicking, tell your boyfriend how you really feel. Tell him you’re really happy with him and your life, but are afraid of the future because you have no idea what could happen. Additionally, tell him that your life seems too good to be true, like a happy bubble that may burst anytime. If he has any sense, he’ll know it’s time for him to make some assurances to you.

* The last resort

Don’t hide your emotions or play with words. Tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him you feel like the relationship is not moving forward. No guy who really loves you would make you feel like you’re hanging by a thread all the time. And if he really does love you, he won’t be upset to hear that. Instead, he’ll say something that makes you feel better.

* If he gets upset

If he retaliates badly, it only means he’s just not ready to commit no matter what you or anyone else says. A guy may truly love you, but he may not be interested in marriage. Can you deal with that? If you can’t handle that, and are really serious about getting married soon, it’s probably time to ask yourself if you’re with the right guy for you.