14 Rules To Follow To Be A Hot Guy

Love is in the eye of the beholder. There are people we're naturally drawn to, while others leave us unaffected. Although everyone has unique preferences—making love so intriguingly complex—some qualities can universally increase a guy's appeal and attractiveness to women.

The challenge is that many guys look to other guys for advice on what's cool or attractive, rather than turning to those who are actually judging them. Surprisingly, some traits that might make a guy "uncool" to other men are often the very things that make him attractive to women.

This explains why you sometimes see the "hot girl" with a so-called "geek." He's only seen as a geek by other guys because he's a nonconformist. Women are drawn to men who break the mold—guys who don’t believe they have to be all about sports to be manly, and who understand that taking care of their appearance is a positive. That confidence in individuality is truly attractive.

# Wear Khakis

Faded jeans are great, but sometimes a polished look is even better. A well-fitted pair of khakis with slit pockets and a tapered cut can be incredibly attractive.

# Play an Instrument

It’s never too late to pick up the guitar or play the piano. Playing an instrument can boost your appeal, even if you’re not typically considered "hot."

# Be a Gentleman

Respect goes a long way. Small acts of chivalry like opening doors, pulling out chairs, or helping make choices in a friendly way show respect and can be a major attraction factor.

# Take a Break from Sports

Knowing all the latest sports stats doesn’t impress most girls. Remembering her middle name or favorite color, however, will.

# Wear a Touch of Cologne

A subtle hint of cologne can be appealing—just don’t overdo it. Go for timeless classics like Grey Flannel or Old Spice; there’s a reason they’ve stayed popular for generations.

# Be Smart with Your Beard

While beards are trendy, they’re a personal choice. Wear it with confidence, and it’ll be appealing, whether you’re going for a rugged look or a clean shave.

# Show Some Humor

A quick wit and a lighthearted approach can make any situation more enjoyable. Just be sure your humor feels natural—forced jokes rarely come across as attractive.

# Stay Stylish, Not Overly Trendy

It’s okay to follow some trends, but dressing head-to-toe in the latest fashion can feel like you’re trying too hard. Find what suits you best, and leave the rest on the runway.

# Sweat in Moderation

Believe it or not, a little post-workout scent can be appealing. Just keep it fresh—too much time without a shower isn’t attractive.

# Keep It Clean

A neat, organized appearance shows you respect yourself. A guy who cares about his grooming and living space doesn’t have to be spotless but shows he values himself.

# Be Smart, Not a Know-It-All

Intelligence is attractive, but coming across as a “know-it-all” or overdoing sarcasm can be a turn-off. There’s a fine balance that keeps things respectful and enjoyable.

# Get a Good Haircut

A defined style is key. A “just rolled out of bed” look doesn’t do the trick, but a tailored cut that suits your look does.

# Stay Fit

While we’re not all looking for a bodybuilder, showing you take care of yourself and maximize your health is very appealing.

# Wear a Genuine Smile

A genuine smile is inviting and shows confidence. There’s nothing more attractive than a guy who’s happy and comfortable in his own skin.