7 Must Know Signs He Wants You To Be His Girlfriend

Navigating the territory of budding romance can be a perplexing endeavor, especially when decoding a guy's intentions. Perhaps you've spent countless moments with him, shared dinners, and yet, the expected romantic gestures seem elusive. In those moments, the mind races, questioning if his feelings align with yours. You've even crafted mental snapshots for future Facebook posts and planned distant anniversary celebrations. But, in the whirlwind of emotions, is he also scripting similar visions?

Often, women attempt to unravel the enigma of men, assuming they're easily comprehensible. We sometimes speculate that the gateway to their affections is through their stomachs (a theory yet to be scientifically validated).

However, the reality unfolds differently. As you find yourself pondering whether this guy reciprocates your sentiments and desires a committed relationship, it's evident that understanding them isn't as simple as anticipated. Turns out, men are just as intricate as women. Yet, within this complexity lie subtle and overt cues that could signify his aspiration to transition from casual to committed, paving the path towards a more definitive relationship.

# He deleted his dating apps

Listen, when I deleted my dating app from my phone, it was a big deal for me. It was a sign I didn’t want to look for anyone else and that I’m not interested in hookups. So, if he deletes his Tinder, that is without you telling him to do so, he makes that first step on his own. He’s done swiping.

# He asks you things about yourself

There’s a specific way we interact with people we only hook up with. That is, we don’t really interact with them at all. Yeah, there’ll be small talk and shallow conversation, but he’s not interested in getting to know more about you.

He just wants in your pants and then to go home. But if your guy is trying to get to know you on a personal level, he cares about you.

# He introduces you to his besties

Yes, I said besties. If you only use a guy to hook up with, you’re not going to introduce him to your close circle of people. This goes the same for guys. They’ll have a nickname for you like, “the girl with red hair” or “the one with the mole on her upper lip” and that’s what you’ll be known as. But if he introduces you to his close friends, he wants them to see you.

# He calls you

I know, this may seem minor, but guys only interested in a hook up are the ones that only ever text you. Sure, they could phone you, it would probably be easier, but then they’d have to talk to you. Nowadays, calling someone on the phone has turned into an act of intimacy. Weird, right? He wants to chat with you about how your day went, etc.

# You talk daily

Now, this doesn’t mean you talk all day, but maybe he texts you in the morning or sends you a cute goodnight text at night. The point is, you’re the first person that comes to his mind before he closes his eyes at night. That’s what actually matters. If he starts and ends his day with you, it’s a great sign.

# He spends his weekends with you

Weekends are a precious time in everyone’s lives. It’s the time where we get to relax and be with the people we haven’t seen all week. So, if he’s giving you his time from Friday to Sunday, well, then you must be pretty special. Now, if he’s spending his weekend days and nights with you, he’s into you.

# He takes you to events

Whether it’s his sister’s wedding or his Christmas dinner, you’re his plus-one. Now, this sign is important. Literally, no guy will bring a girl to a wedding or family dinner if he doesn’t see her as someone special. He’s not going to make himself vulnerable for questioning by his parents and grandparents over some girl that’s just a hookup.