Part II- 5 Ways To Show Respect To Your Elders

As a little kid, you would’ve stood by your parents’ every word, but growing up, you may have questioned their decisions and even rebelled against their ideas and opinions. At a point, you also thought you knew better than them. Maybe you did, maybe you didn’t.

Through all the arguments you’ve had, the times you wanted to move away from them, and moments you wished that they just understand you, there was one constant: your parents’ love for you. It is pure and only grows as you age. No matter what you do, how many wrongs you make, they will love you. In return, all they ask or hope for is a little love and respect.

* Always apologize

Misunderstandings and arguments between a parent and child are common. There are chances that we say the wrong things in the heat of the moment. If you think you have spoken harshly or raised your voice, don’t hesitate to apologize. You may not be wrong, but if you think your behavior hurt your parents, say you’re sorry that your actions hurt them. It could make a world of difference to them.

* Be open with them

Honest communication is the base of any relationship. As children, we tend to share every detail of our lives with our parents, but as we grow up, we filter out certain things from them. Try and be as honest as possible and let them on into the most important aspects of your life. Let them know you want them to be a part of your life.

* Always say please

Your parents will show unconditional love towards you, they would not think twice to move mountains for your happiness. But this doesn’t mean you take them for granted. When you are asking them favors or need their assistance, be polite. Use the words “please” and “thank you” generously when talking to your parents.

* Never blame them

Blaming your parents just because your life is not as you imagined is not fair. Know that your parents did and are doing the best they can for you. They love you and are willing to make sacrifices for you. Likewise, there may be a few times when you will have to compromise and be okay with not getting that new toy or bike or car. Also, it is unfair to blame them for all your actions.

* Do not break their trust

One way of showing your parents you respect them is to avoid doing things that can break their trust in you. If they trust you enough to give you the needed freedom and privacy, never misuse it.