Reasons To Tell Your Husband You Love Him

No word in this world is more powerful than love. Love brings happiness, understanding, joy, and excitement. There is nothing sweeter or perfect than hearing the three words from your intimate partner – ‘I love you’. One of the famous quotes stipulates that even the strongest men can melt because of love. The love feeling is amazing and makes life more interesting. You are very lucky if you have a special guy who puts up with you and for some reasons, he seems to care.

Needless to say, you have a million reasons to tell him that you love him. From the way he smiles at you and holds you to the handsome looks he possesses, you must be crazy about this amazing guy in your life. Imagine he adores your perfect imperfections. Now, do you see why you should say you love him? Do you love your boyfriend or husband too much and sometimes don’t even understand why? This article provides you with a list of reasons you love him. Let’s count them.

# He has maintained your love for years

Your 5th wedding anniversary is around the corner and you are planning to renew the wedding vows. Isn’t this something worth celebrating? Think about how many couples break up in their first year of marriage. The fact that he has kept your marriage vows is one of the many reasons you love him. Tell him you are still in love him and don’t forget to mention how grateful you are that he has been with you for years. He deserves to know the reasons you are still holding on to your love. Sharing sweet moment with your husband is romantic and explaining the reasons you love him adds a unique touch to your marriage. You don’t have to wait for a perfect moment like his birthday or Valentine’s Day to be romantic. You can tell him during some random days and it will create a stronger and healthier bond. Despite the stupid things you fight over and the life struggles, he is still loyal and committed to you. Don’t you love the games you play as a couple and how he teases you? You are a blessed woman thanks to your lucky stars you gave this guy a chance to be your life partner.

# His love for you is unconditional

You haven’t met any other perfect man like your husband and his love amazes you every day. He accepts you for who you are and never tries to change you. Sometimes you annoy him but he never gives up on you. Unconditional love is kind, patient, not selfish, not proud, and not easily angered. Does this describe what your hubby has for you? Then you have enough reasons to reciprocate it. It is hard for you to date another guy because you can’t imagine being with someone else besides your husband. He treats you with respect and there is no way you can forget him. Sometimes, he is so nice that you want to tell him to stop. You will always be his special woman in his life and will not want to share you with any other guy. He even tells you that he will never walk away no matter what.

# He finds reasons to love and trust you

He loves you for your personality and good looks and compliments you now and then. He has no reasons to worry about you going out with friends because he trusts you. There is nothing scary as a man who constantly monitors his girl’s movements due to jealousy. That he trusts you is enough reason to love him more.

# He has respect for you and the kids

A perfect man respects his wife and kids. He never talks in a negative tone or abusive expressions to make his point. He understands that there are issues which cannot be discussed in front of kids. Be grateful that your husband has never abused you physically or verbally. This is something worth mentioning when you feel lovey-dovey.

# You are addicted to his recipes

There are some meals your husband makes that you can’t by yourself. And when you ask for the recipe, he doesn’t have it- it’s his natural talent. Let him know that you love him for making you that delicious breakfast. Be happy that your husband can cook because not so many do. When he offers to cook dinner, it is not that he doesn’t like your food; he is being romantic and prefers to cook than take you out for dinner.

# He provides for the family

Kudos if you have a perfect and responsible man in your life. He has never neglected you or your kids. He takes you shopping, pays rent, pays school fees, and spares some money to take you on vacation. These are enough reasons to love him.

# You feel protected

One of the jobs of a perfect husband is to be the protector of his family. You feel safe when he’s at home- physically and emotionally. Sometimes it is psychological and that’s why you struggle to find sleep when he is out of time. His protectiveness goes beyond mandatory. He watches out for you when guys are around so they don’t bother you. You love the way he ‘marks his territory’ and you too should do the same. The bottom line is that your husband is willing to shield you from any kind of harm. He will defend you from enemies and help you shun negative thoughts that could adversely affect your health.

# He comes home early

If your husband heads straight to home after work, he is one of a kind. A lot of men stay up late in clubs and forget about their families. But you have a family man by your side who would rather forego guy’s time just to have dinner with you and the kids. He treats your marriage with respect and is always on time to help you in case of an issue. He deserves your love.

# He reasons with you

He considers you when making major decisions about your marriage. He reminds you that you are a team and so he values your ideas and always consults you before making a budget for the family. He is mindful of his actions and works hard to see your life becoming easier each day. If he checks something you might be interested in like a magazine, he brings it to you so you can kill boredom. Don’t you feel good that your hubby considers your opinions equally important as his? He doesn’t mind waking up earlier than you when you’re worked up all night. He is even thoughtful to your relatives and cares about them as well. This is the type of guy you should show love. Let him know that you love his thoughtfulness.

# He brings passion to your marriage

Not only does he make love to you passionately but also shows enthusiasm in other areas of life. He has a passion for traveling, cooking, artwork, family, his job, name them. As long as he is interested in something, he does it with passion. This is something you should learn from your husband. He is actually an inspiration to you and you should share his passions.

# His honesty

Your husband is always straight to point, no gray area or shortcut. He is brutally honest and doesn’t leave you guessing. To him ‘maybe’ is not an option; it is either yes or no. Let him know that you appreciate his honesty and tell him that you love him for it. Encourage him with quotes such as ‘honesty is the best policy’ so he can keep up. He tells you the truth about your meals, new shoes, and your job. It is relieving to know that your husband is honest with you when discussing serious matters of your relationship. Some truths might be painful to hear but will help you make better decisions. An honest man is loyal, respectful, and dependable. That’s why you love him, right? Why not tell him?