9 Signs You Are Going From Casually Dating To An Official Relationship

Sometimes, it's not always worth investing your time and energy into turning a casual dating scenario into a full-fledged relationship. To make the shift from dating to a committed relationship, you need to be ready for change. Even if you hope that things will stay the same or get better, it's easy to end up with unrealistic expectations.

Ideally, if you're dating someone, things will go smoothly. But as the dynamic evolves, it will require a deeper investment of time, effort, and emotional energy to make it work.

Think of it this way: a lottery player can only win the jackpot if he buys a ticket. The same applies when moving from dating to a relationship; it takes commitment, effort, collaboration, and sometimes the ability to be your own therapist, best friend, and even fortune teller.

Strange, isn't it?

Ultimately, the only definite way to know if you'll enter a serious relationship is when one of you brings up the topic. However, there are still signs to watch for, so you don’t get caught off guard.

# No Awkward Silences

Though it might seem like a minor detail, it's a strong sign when conversations flow effortlessly. When you're with someone who makes every chat enjoyable, even the quiet moments feel comfortable rather than awkward.

# You Make Each Other Laugh by Just Being Yourselves

If you can both relax, be yourselves, and still make each other laugh, it's a good indicator of compatibility. It shows you're comfortable around each other and share a similar sense of humor, bringing genuine joy.

# There’s Genuine Interest on Both Sides

It might sound obvious, but mutual interest is crucial. After dating around for a while, it’s easy to forget what this feels like. If you’re no longer just being polite or trying to make the best of a situation, but instead are truly interested in the other person, that’s a great sign.

# You Always Plan Another Date

A clear indicator that things are progressing is when you consistently make plans for the next date. Even if busy schedules get in the way, the effort to plan and see each other again shows commitment. When both are straightforward about their schedules, it’s a sign of sincerity and interest.

# A Unique Comfort That Surpasses Butterflies

It’s normal to feel nervous, but if you quickly slip into a comfortable state when you’re together, it means things are going well. Comfort in conversation and presence is a sign of deeper connection, beyond just being friends.

# Phones Are Absent

These days, people are glued to their phones. So, if you’re so engaged with each other that your phones are set aside, it’s a significant compliment. It shows you find each other more interesting than any distraction.

# More Interested in Each Other Than the Surroundings

When you’re with the right person, even the most exciting surroundings can’t distract you from each other. Whether it’s exploring together or getting lost in conversation, your focus is on each other, hinting that you’re ready to take things to the next level.

# Flirting is Playful, Not Overly Forward

Flirting should start off light and playful, growing into something more over time. If your interactions have built a natural, growing attraction without rushing into the physical, it suggests there’s more than just physical attraction at play.

# Body Language Speaks Volumes

Initially, you might be conscious of your body language, but over time, you naturally become more relaxed and open. As you get comfortable, small touches or leaning closer without hesitation are signs of growing closeness, indicating there’s more than just a physical connection.

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