Some Useful Dating Tips And Advice For Women From Men

Well, have you ever wondered what is going on in guy’s head while dating? Sometimes their dating tips and opinions can be more helpful than your friend’s dating tips or something you wrote in the magazine. It is okay to have a different kind of tips and advice for dating a man, from your family, friends, acquaintances, and others. But men’s tips and advice can help you the best way possible. Here are some useful dating tips and advice for women from men.

# Women can make a first move, too

There is no any dating advice that says guys should make the first move every single time. Women are often convinced that men should always ask them to have a date. Well, no. Girls, be free to do that, guys will appreciate it and it’ll show them that you are an independent woman. Also, do not be afraid to text them first. It shows how confident, spontaneous and brave you are, nor afraid of being rejected. C’mon, it is just a text, show them that you care and that you are interested in them. Studies show that men most like when women approach them in bars or text them first then shy women who're waiting for first step. Believe me, that is a big plus for you and it makes you more attractive. So, go ahead and try it out!

# Men like to hear more from you

Talking about your hobbies and interests while you're dating is more fun rather than being quiet. Men like to talk, sometimes way too much, so you can do the same, don't be shy. You can talk about the things you like to do in your free time such as taking a walk, reading a book, having picnics with your friends and family and etc. Avoid previous dating experiences and ex-boyfriends, at least on a first date. Talk about it all, don’t think they do not like it, they do and cannot wait to share their hobbies and interests with women, too. Through this kind of a conversation, they’ll find you more attractive, plus if you two have similar interests, that’s a big plus and a hint for a second date.

# Let them know whether it works or not

Men are like us, women, do not like to be played with. So, if you really like a new guy you’re dating with, tell him, let him know that you enjoy his company. Don't be shy to show that you're interested. I’m sure he’ll feel butterflies in his stomach and be thrilled, just like any other person that hears good news. Go ahead and give him a clue that things are going pretty well. If you don’t do that they will assume that you have no interest in them and they’ll move on. To be honest, ladies you wouldn’t like that to happen, seeing the man you like giving up on you.

# Don't get stuck in the past

What happens in the past stays there, all of us, especially women should remember that. Some of us have had a pretty bad dating experience and we ended up being hurt so much. Try not to talk about it while starting a new chapter of dating someone new, it is not a right time to do that. Sometimes it is better to leave the past behind and enjoy in upcoming things. Bringing up your past dating and relationship experiences too soon can turn the men off. So, save that for later, you two have more different topics to talk about, not this one, not right now. Be careful.

# Let'em know if it's not working

It’s hard to tell someone you do not like them and that your relationship is not going to work. The majority of men would appreciate if a woman tells them right away they are not into them, rather than be shy. It is easy to pretend that everything is doing well and fake it but after a while, you’ll get bored of it. What if your man starts to love you but you do not feel the same way and want to quit it. It’ll be hard for them to accept it, men have feelings too even tho they’re acting like a cold stone. Do them a favor, if you do not like them or think that a relationship between you two isn’t going to work, tell them while you're still dating and do not wait any longer. It’s much easier to do it at the beginning.

# They like women the way they are

Ladies, being your true self is a big plus and really attractive to men. You don’t have to pretend to be someone you are not just to impress a guy you like. No, that is a big turn off for them. Be you, spontaneous, brave, smart, funny. Don't be shy, show him everything you have got. Do not be ashamed, I know that it’s lame to be told to be your true self while dating, but it is true.

# They like dating communicative women

Awkward silence, no. Men do not like it, not at all. You don’t want to be out on a date with your guy and be quiet 90% of the time. No, that is not how it works. You should talk about random stuff because men like to see that women are communicative and they’ll get more interested. So, break the silence, do not be afraid to be outgoing. That doesn't mean you should be nosey while dating. That means you could amuse the guy and make him feel comfortable.

# Yes, you can pay bill sometimes

Men know that they should pay the dinner bill while you're dating and they will do that but sometimes women can offer to pay for it. Of course, men will reject it because you're dating a gentleman, right? They will never let a girl pay the bill on a date, but they’ll appreciate the women’s offer to do that. That means women don’t expect men to pay for everything, which is a good thing and it shows them they are not being used for their money.

# Don't bring your friends with you every time

Okay, it’s fine to bring time once or twice, but every single time you are on a date with your man? Girl, that is too much. Guys like to have some private time with you, not to date all your friends. Isn’t it too much? Have some time alone with you man, he would appreciate it. Sharing some special moments of relationship with your beloved is the best thing in the world. He will feel special too.

# Don't expect too much

On the first date, all women in the world expect a prince charming with a white horse and to experience a perfect fairytale, but hold on for a second. You cannot expect that right away because you can get disappointed later when your expectations do not match the reality. This is not a fairytale you’ve been dreaming of, it’s a reality. So do not expect too much from the guy while you're still dating.