Unusual Tips To Keep In Mind For Your First Date

First date jitters are pretty normal. There are times we go search for books on the ideal or perfect first date. Most of us have more failed first dates than “perfect” first dates.No matter how many dates you have been to, chances are high you will feel nervous around the guy you are going to meet for the first time.

Being too nervous can go wrong in many ways. Some talk too much when they are nervous and not every guy likes that. No blame there, it can be annoying. On the other hand, some cannot talk when they are nervous. No guy will go for another date with a woman who won’t talk, thinking she had no fun. Nervous or not, talking is important on a date. I mean, isn’t that all we do on a date?

# Choose an ideal dating venue where you can talk

What is the point of going for a date? It is for getting to know each other by talking. How would that work out if you go to some loud place where you cannot hear the other person talk? Or worse, where you will have to scream at each other to talk? No point. It’s completely pointless.

# Clothe your personality while being comfortable

You might spend hours contemplating on what to wear and go hunting in the closet for the perfect dress. But I tell you, always, always dress comfortably. You will have a much better date if you are comfortable in what you wear. You should feel comfortable.

# A date is not an interview

The immense pressure of dates put you on an edge, just like how you go for an interview. There is this absolute need to be the best; you have to put the best foot forward, you have to put on your best clothes, you have to try to say the best things. If not the best, it is the “right” thing.

# Be confident. Be yourself.

A confident woman is a sexy woman. Guys love confident women. Someone who can speak out and outwit him. Someone confident in herself. In other words, be everything you are. Do not try to be someone you are not. Simple as that.

Let him know the real you on the first date itself. You don’t want him to see another version of you on the next date. Be as real as you can be. I know it’s hard opening up and getting comfortable on the first date itself, but it is always better to be yourself. For both of you. If he cannot handle the sass in you, he is not worth it. He won’t last much anyway.

# Be silly, not uptight. Laugh your heart out

Give yourself a breather and loosen up. If you are having a great time with the guy, go be your goofy and silly self. Do not hold back thinking what if he doesn’t like you or there won’t be a second date. Make most of your first date then!

Laughter is the key. Laughter goes all the way to the heart. When you laugh, you are in a good mood. When you are in a good mood, the person you are with feels good. Laughter is said to be contagious. Lighten up the mood by laughing at silly and funny stories. But please don’t fake laugh. It is honestly displeasing in every possible way. Bring the real you along with the real laughter in you.

# Stick to positive conversational topics and share details about you

Give him a chance to know about you and your life. Talk about what you love, which will give you a beauty only a beholder can witness. Talk about something you are passionate about, what you do in your leisure time, about your family, etc. Stick to the positive and light topics. You don’t want to talk about deep and heavy topics just yet. But be careful when you overshare to a douchebag. Keep a line that doesn’t cross too personal.