Valentines Special- 4 Tips To Bring Love In Your Life

You know what it looks like, but you have no idea how to find it. You have seen it on the movie screen and possibly in the relationships of those close to you. But for whatever reason, it has escaped you time and time again. It’s called love.

So many of us are looking for it, but only a lucky few find it in its purest form. The goal of this article is to guide you to be one of those lucky people. Let’s look at the best ways to create amazing love in your life.

* Be you

This seems a touch too simple, right? Although it is awfully basic advice, it’s important that you sit with it for a minute and let it sink in. One of the biggest reasons that relationships sputter out is because the charade that you put forth, in the beginning, is too starkly contrasted to who you are in real life. When you meet someone, both of you put on quite a show to impress the other. That’s all well and good, but eventually, those grand gestures and big personalities will shrink down to size.

* Be complete with or without someone else

It’s almost cliche to just tell you to “love yourself”. But within the cliche lies some wisdom. Before you go looking for someone else to complete you, take the time to feel loved and complete with no one else around.

* Laugh it up

When most people think about love, they think poetic thoughts and meaningful moments. It tends to be very serious stuff. But love is also about laughter. Why do you think romantic comedies are so popular? Seeing love intertwined with humour makes us all happy humans.

* Forgive your past

Whether it be forgiving an ex who treated you terribly or forgiving yourself for something you did in a past relationship, make sure that you act on the notion of forgiveness as you feel it. By not forgiving those past memories, you’re staying stuck in that timeline and that mindset. You’re trying to rewrite something that is permanently set in stone.